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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #570 on: April 16, 2013, 01:58:14 PM »
If you live in a big university town, you could probably furnish your whole house with cast-offs at the end of the year.

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« Reply #571 on: April 16, 2013, 02:01:37 PM »
Last year, I had to go to New York and move my brother out of his apartment.

In the basement of his apartment building, the building super had a really cool set up. There were book cases with tons of books, an area for furniture, an area for clothes, etc... You could leave what you wanted and you could take what you wanted.

If not for my DH, I think I would be a hoarder. I wanted to take everything in that basement with me. DH didn't let me take anything.

Im not sure if I can be considered cheap, but I like to think I am thrifty. Most of my clothes was bought at the Goodwill or on serious clearance. I just can't bring myself to pay full price.

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #572 on: April 16, 2013, 02:41:32 PM »
Over the last few years, I've developed the hobby of picking up any beer can or beer bottle I see (even if they're dirty).  I get ten cents per can/bottle, and it's amazing how quickly the money adds up.  We must live in a neighborhood full of slobs, because we've managed to buy a very nice couch with our "free money".

That's cheapskate story part 1.  Part 2 is when I crowed about all the money we had in our beer fund, and how we were going to use it to buy a couch.  Someone on another forum said "Why don't you buy a used couch from Craigslist and pocket the difference?"  Same reason that another poster already mentioned - I do NOT take someone else's upholstered furniture.  You never know what grossness it's been subjected to!

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #573 on: April 16, 2013, 02:49:39 PM »
Over the last few years, I've developed the hobby of picking up any beer can or beer bottle I see (even if they're dirty).  I get ten cents per can/bottle, and it's amazing how quickly the money adds up.  We must live in a neighborhood full of slobs, because we've managed to buy a very nice couch with our "free money".


I wish we could do that in this state!  We used to do that for easy quick money when we were a young, newly married couple and living in CA, but now we're in Maryland, we can't as much. 

On the other hand, DH would save up coated copper wires, strip the coating off them, and once we took that and an old washer that was in the house before we moved but wasn't working down to this place in Frederick that would pay you per pound I think for any recyclable metal.  We got a good amount off that washer!
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #574 on: April 16, 2013, 02:58:23 PM »
Well, you know how they say that one man's junk is another man's treasure, but I'd definitely draw the line at taking a pee-stained couch - free or not!

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #575 on: April 16, 2013, 03:01:19 PM »
Over the last few years, I've developed the hobby of picking up any beer can or beer bottle I see (even if they're dirty).  I get ten cents per can/bottle, and it's amazing how quickly the money adds up.  We must live in a neighborhood full of slobs, because we've managed to buy a very nice couch with our "free money".


The pop cans from my work stash (I go through a case every month or 2, so not a lot) live in a plastic grocery bag in my car's back seat.
When I'm asked for money on the street or I see someone collecting, I don't always want to open my wallet (for a variety of reasons), but asking if they would like $1 worth of cans generally is positive all around.

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« Reply #576 on: April 16, 2013, 03:03:50 PM »

BUT I think that some of DH's family is worse.

MIL in particular is obsessed with plastic take away cups. Not the thick, reasonably you could use this a few times kind, but the cheap clear plastic ones and even the paper ones. Woe on the person who tries to throw away a solo cup.

I think we share the same MIL. My MIL and FIL were visiting last week and when they come to visit, they bring food. Lots of it, nothing I'd ever want to eat (esp when it's been in their van for two days travelling from a cold state to a warm state and shrimp is involved w/o ice.) Anyway....some of the leftovers they brought (because MIL cleans out her fridge to travel) were in cottage and ricotta cheese containers. Those containers were on the counter when it came time to do dishes and I asked my FIL if I should toss them out or would they be making the return trip. He said to toss. I did. Ten minutes later, she asked where they were. I left the kitchen to avoid the disapproving look.

They stopped at MickyD's for coffee on the way down and used those cups to drink coffee out of the entire time they were here. I knew not to toss them from previous visits when my MIL got upset that I served coffee in real mugs. :)

When my dd #1 was baptized, dh and I decided that we would go the paper plate and plasticware route for the baptism party, to save us time and a bit of energy, so we could enjoy our guests and so we wouldn't have to worry too much about clean up at the end of the day. Well my MIL went around collecting all of the plasticware and put it in my sink so I could wash it. (after we said to just toss) To be honest, I already felt bad about using them as it was and thought well, they are all here, I should just wash them. Then I came to my senses and tossed them.

Earlier in the thread someone talked of saving the nice plastic containers that come with take out these days. I love those, great for left overs and for dh's lunch!

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #577 on: April 16, 2013, 03:12:59 PM »
On the other hand, DH would save up coated copper wires, strip the coating off them, and once we took that and an old washer that was in the house before we moved but wasn't working down to this place in Frederick that would pay you per pound I think for any recyclable metal.  We got a good amount off that washer!

We've done that!  What drove my husband crazy a few weeks ago was when he discovered that somebody had gone up to the house we'd just bought and torn the copper pipes off the compressor.  The value of the amount of copper they stole?  Probably about $2.  The cost of fixing the damage they made ripping it out?  Several hundred.
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« Reply #578 on: April 16, 2013, 03:19:43 PM »
DH & I are also urban pickers. Our living room table, our vacuums, some beautiful crystal serve ware, all picked.

I started reading that you were a urban pickler, didn't bat an eye at that, but wondered quite fast how you could pickle a table, vacuums or dinnerware...

When we got rid of a set of a storage unit I taped the legs (removable) with the rest of the shelves. It was in pretty good condition, I just hated it in my room.

My father got the building manager to allow a table under the main staires that is used for magazine/book drop-off. You can drop the ones you don't like and take anything left before you. There used to be more stuff on it and now there's only a few magazines but I still think it was a go idea.

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #579 on: April 16, 2013, 03:30:23 PM »
please be REALLY carefull with trading things around apartments. That is the leading cause of Bedbugs being transfered!  We eliminated the "free" tables from most apartment complexes that our company owns/runs.  Make  sure you know what to look for with Bedbugs and whenever possible either toss it in the dryer on HIGH for at least 15 minutes or freeze it in the freezer for at least 48 hours.

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #580 on: April 16, 2013, 05:03:42 PM »
Regarding free things.....

When I was a child we went away for six months, leaving the house in the care of a family who we were friends with at the time. When we got back, the house was trashed and INFESTED with fleas. No kidding, when you walked into a room a black wave of fleas would come towards you. In the office we had a mat made of straw type material. It looked like a woven hay bale. We flea bombed the rest of the house, but that mat was contaminated by the chemicals and STILL infested with fleas, so Dad thew it out. As we were leaving the dump we saw someone roll it up and put it in his car...... :o
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #581 on: April 16, 2013, 06:31:07 PM »
If you live in a big university town, you could probably furnish your whole house with cast-offs at the end of the year.

Hoo boy on that one! 

I remember a family gathering during move-in week at the University in Madison WI.  I swear that I saw the truck from the 'Beverly Hillbillies' with the rocking chair on top pull up to the curb near a dorm. 

MIL thought the scene was a gigantic yard sale. We almost had to physically restrain her from asking
 the people unloading the stuff how much they wanted for some Christmas tree decorations. 

MIL is usually pretty good about thils sort of thing but the scene was so surreal she went little tharn.   

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #582 on: April 16, 2013, 06:48:04 PM »
I once saw that someone was throwing out what appeared to be a perfectly good white dresser, and knowing that my daughter wanted one for her room, I grabbed it and took it home.  We inspected it carefully for woodworm or anything nasty, and it seemed fine - the only trouble was, it wasn't white.  It was a pale pink.  My very un-girly daughter professed unhappiness at the colour, and my husband ended up promising to paint it blue.   But hey, free dresser!

First, however, he had to strip off the old paint (I can't remember why he couldn't just paint over it, but there was a reason).  Then he had to prime it. Then he had to paint it.  It took several days and roughly $100 worth of supplies.    So much for "free"!

The next time one of our daughters asked for a dresser, we went to Ikea.  :D

On the other hand, the quality of what you spiffed up may have been much higher than something new.  My mother has an Ikea dresser that hasn't handled her moves at all well.  It's falling apart.  I have an old dresser that cost much less than her Ikea dresser, that I found at a consignment store.  That dresser has come through far too many moves with no damage at all, and it's really well made with dove tailing and no staples anywhere in sight!  I like old furniture a whole lot!   ;D
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #583 on: April 16, 2013, 07:21:34 PM »
I'm not generally a big fan of IKEA's sparse style, but I have to say that the IKEA dresser we have has held up much better than our "nice" furniture.  We actually feel really bad for our bedroom furniture, because with 7 moves in 4 years, the poor dressers have gotten really banged up.  :(  Two of my girls have IKEA dressers, though, and those look almost new.  One girl has a similar style dresser that we got off craigslist, and it looks okay on the outside but the drawer bottoms are falling out and need to be fixed sometime.  I am *so* looking forward to living in one place for 4 years and not destroying all of our property by moving around.
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #584 on: April 16, 2013, 07:28:54 PM »
I hereby nominate my friend's DH. I posted about him and his tantrum to my mechanic, who I had recommended to him, recently.  Some other examples of his cheapness include:

Wearing his undies even though they are holey and stained;
Only getting a haircut when he has a coupon, and said haircut WIHTOUT is $10
Has a coniption if she or their son need to go to the dr., since their copay is $30. HE never goes, and HIS parents don't even have health insurance, so he doesnt get the need for it 
He also had a fit when she bought their son his first pair of shoes, saying the $30 or $40 was unnecesasry, that she could yave gotten cheaper ones at Walmart.

He is beyond cheap, irrationally and obessively so. He refused to entertain the notion of buying a new car until they could pay cash. NO ifs, ands, or buts. Which is his choice, but by doing that, chose to pour $$ into an old car that eventually died (which was the subject of his childish tirade), because he REFUSED to have anything to do with a car loan.  Nevermind they HAD the $$ to buy one, but as it would have drained most of their savings, he refused. And now is going around saying "we should have gotten rid of it a long time ago" yes due to his stubborness and cheap ways, he didn.t

He also doesn't know very much either; he is convinced that the mechanic caused their elderly car's transmission to fail, simply by replacing the starter the day before. and nothing you say to him will convince him that is not the case. nevermind the car was pushing 14, and already had a replacement tranny. Oh no. in his mind, since the mechanic was the last to touch it, it was HIS fault.

Anyone want to take bets on his never having the transmission fluid changed because of the "unnecessary" expense.