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ladyknight1

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #660 on: April 19, 2013, 08:08:00 PM »
No! Uncle is a carpenter, and AFAIK, my uncle has never volunteered or hinted that he would do the work, much less pro bono as my parents assume.

They did get the second bathroom renovated two years ago. The only part of it that worked before was the toilet and sink, the shower had not worked since they bought the house in 1974. Of course, there are only two people living there, versus five when I was a child.
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #661 on: April 19, 2013, 08:44:45 PM »
Oh, the landlord stories reminded me ...

Back in my college student days, I lived in an apartment in a building which was rented through the student housing office and there were four to the apartment (it was a female only building, except for the apartment manager and his wife).  So, his go-to thing was tinfoil.  Toilet running non-stop?  Wrap the chain in tinfoil.  Fridge not keeping cool? wrap the back in tinfoil. 

Then there was the renter when my now-ex and I were co-managing an apartment building.  She tried to break the lease and still get her deposit back on the grounds that the apartment was "dangerously cold".  Unfortunately for her, the thermostats were controlled *by the tenant* and keeping the temperature down to 55 degrees was *her* choice and her lack of cleaning resulted in mold growths that required a lot of effort to clean.

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #662 on: April 19, 2013, 11:28:30 PM »
What about the cheapos who push their trash onto you and then in the 1/100 times it turns out to be something nice or even great, they lose it.  One of my friends got some old games and such from an aunt. She had been pushing her to take them for years, so my friend finally took them and was going to trash them.  I came over and after a little googling and a couple of ebay auctions, she netted a little over $300 selling pieces from the torn up games to collectors who were missing pieces and selling a couple of games intact as hey were barely played with.  Aunt lost it when she found out.  This was in 1995 and my friend still hears about how she "ripped her poor aunt off".

That happened a lot when I was a kid. I would be given things or find things in horrible condition and spend time and money to bring it back to life and function and looking good. Inevitably, whoever gave me the item or decided they deserved it more would want it or want it back back and kick up such a stink it would get taken away from me and given back to them. I started refusing anything my family would give me and be called ungrateful  ::). Meh

The last incident was my aunt had refinished a house and had junked a handmade bar top which another aunt grabbed and she left it outside for 3 years. It was in a very sorry state but due to the solid handmade quality it was salvageable with work. When aunt moved house she dumped the bar top on the nature strip (basically free game) and I made sure to ask aunt if I could have it and she said yes. Luckily I asked in front of an uncle because when I had refinished it and turned it into a very nice coffee table she wanted it back and went screeching to everyone that I had stolen it. Oh the phone calls I got!. Uncle got wind of it and told her to shove it. Said uncle had seen me ask and he had helped me refinish it so he knew what was going on. Still have the coffee table now.


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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #663 on: April 20, 2013, 07:55:40 AM »
I remembered something that's eyeroll-y.  One Christmas, while I was still on speaking terms with my parents, my mother had only filled the boys' stockings, which was fine with me.  But then a few days later I went over because she had something for me and turns out it was a paper bag from some place she'd gone shopping, filled with stuff she'd gotten as samples that she didn't want or couldn't use, or had used and didn't want the rest.

Now, this wouldn't be a problem as some of the stuff I did like and could use.  But she called that my "stocking."  ::)  I didn't say anything and did take it (lack of backbone) but she did get my "You have got to be kidding me." look.   
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #664 on: April 20, 2013, 09:42:17 AM »
My uncle refuses to pay for any repairs in his house.  He has a bathtub in his KITCHEN - uninstalled, I should add, it's just standing on its end - because he doesn't know how to deal with it himself and won't pay for a plumber.   My dad stayed with him a while back and offered to install it for him; my uncle was so insulted by the implication that he didn't know how to do it himself that he threw my dad out and never invited him back.

ladyknight1

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #665 on: April 20, 2013, 05:33:34 PM »
Your uncle cuts off his nose to spite his face!
ďAll that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost."
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #666 on: April 20, 2013, 07:38:23 PM »
I love my father, but I'm starting to wonder if he is a cheapskate. I have a couple of examples:

My mother sometimes makes huge batches of certain foods to take with her when she visits friends or family who are often resting up from illnesses or are just in need of some of her food. She stores this food in those foil containers with cardboard lids and leaves some of them for myself and my father. She has always emphasised to me how reusing them is out of the question, as they aren't safe for such a thing, and even then they are too flimsy to keep their original, useful shape after use. Father saw me moving to throw a used container away and shouted at me about how wasteful I was being, how we could use it again etc. I tried to explain to him that it may not be the best of ideas, but I'm not very good at, well, talking. In the end I waited for him to leave the room and quietly disposed of the container (was that PA of me?)

He also goes to some odd lengths to save himself a few pennies. When we were in another country, he insisted we walk somewhere a long distance away during a storm to save money instead of getting a taxi. Rainstorms which, in this country, are really bad with heavy rain and strong winds. Despite my protests, as I had been living in the country for 5 months at that point and had experienced said storms, he insisted that it would be fine. He didn't lose out on any money, but he made everyone else very unhappy.

My apologies for the length :-[

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #667 on: April 20, 2013, 07:45:39 PM »
...     he insisted we walk somewhere a long distance away during a storm to save money instead of getting a taxi. Rainstorms which, in this country, are really bad with heavy rain and strong winds. Despite my protests, as I had been living in the country for 5 months at that point and had experienced said storms, he insisted that it would be fine. He didn't lose out on any money, but he made everyone else very unhappy.   ...



I think at that point I would have said "Fine, Dad.  You go ahead and walk on and the rest of us will take a cab.  We'll meet you at the [destination].  ~~  Taxi!!"   >:D

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #668 on: April 20, 2013, 07:59:30 PM »
I love my father, but I'm starting to wonder if he is a cheapskate. I have a couple of examples:

My mother sometimes makes huge batches of certain foods to take with her when she visits friends or family who are often resting up from illnesses or are just in need of some of her food. She stores this food in those foil containers with cardboard lids and leaves some of them for myself and my father. She has always emphasised to me how reusing them is out of the question, as they aren't safe for such a thing, and even then they are too flimsy to keep their original, useful shape after use. Father saw me moving to throw a used container away and shouted at me about how wasteful I was being, how we could use it again etc. I tried to explain to him that it may not be the best of ideas, but I'm not very good at, well, talking. In the end I waited for him to leave the room and quietly disposed of the container (was that PA of me?)

He also goes to some odd lengths to save himself a few pennies. When we were in another country, he insisted we walk somewhere a long distance away during a storm to save money instead of getting a taxi. Rainstorms which, in this country, are really bad with heavy rain and strong winds. Despite my protests, as I had been living in the country for 5 months at that point and had experienced said storms, he insisted that it would be fine. He didn't lose out on any money, but he made everyone else very unhappy.

My apologies for the length :-[

Yep, definite cheapskate moments. Making others wet, cold and uncomfortable to save a taxi fare is definitely cheapskate territory.

Your story was not at all long, and your screen name is the best one I've seen for ages! I'm sitting here wondering just what an eclectic dugong would look like. Welcome!  :)

Eclectic Dugong

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #669 on: April 20, 2013, 08:05:00 PM »
I think at that point I would have said "Fine, Dad.  You go ahead and walk on and the rest of us will take a cab.  We'll meet you at the [destination].  ~~  Taxi!!"   >:D

I was 19 at the time, and was still very incapable of standing up for myself. My mother, however, has no such qualms and declared rather forcefully that we were going back to the flat. She can be a forced to be reckoned with when angered.

I do love the man, but he can be a bit difficult sometimes :)

And thank you CakeEater, I'm glad you enjoy the username :) as an aside, these aren't the worst stories, at least in these ones he didn't put our safety in jeopardy.
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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #670 on: April 20, 2013, 09:31:56 PM »
I love my father, but I'm starting to wonder if he is a cheapskate. I have a couple of examples:

He also goes to some odd lengths to save himself a few pennies. When we were in another country, he insisted we walk somewhere a long distance away during a storm to save money instead of getting a taxi. Rainstorms which, in this country, are really bad with heavy rain and strong winds. Despite my protests, as I had been living in the country for 5 months at that point and had experienced said storms, he insisted that it would be fine. He didn't lose out on any money, but he made everyone else very unhappy.

  I had a friend pull that on me when I was sick in a strange city all to save $5. Long story short, that incident made me decide that person should be a former friend because I could not afford -- emotionally or in that case, physically -- to have a cheapskate like that in my life.  She occasionally brings up that incident with a mutual friend expressing her shock (20 years later) that I'd drop her over "the taxi incident."

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #671 on: April 20, 2013, 11:05:24 PM »
OK, maybe this can get second prize. It concerns friends of friends, let's call them John and Mary.

They are at a restaurant, John has hot tea to drink, Mary has hot water. As they are paying the bill at the cashier, Mary finds she has been charged the same for her hot water as John was for his tea. She demands, and gets, a tea bag to take home with her.

I don't know, I kind of feel for Mary here, though I would have requested the charge be removed rather than demanded a tea bag.  If she actually just had hot water and was charged for it (as opposed to using John's tea bag and hoping they would only charge for one), they should have told her ahead of time that they were going to charge her for a tea.

We were on a trip and I ordered tea, but asked them "please don't put in the tea bag, as I have my own that I prefer to use." The waiter told me that he wouldn't charge me for the "cup of hot water." I use a lot of milk in my tea, so I ordered a glass of milk. He couldn't get over that I had ordered milk instead of asking for creamer. Made me wonder what kind of people he usually had for customers! These stories are answering that question!

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #672 on: April 21, 2013, 06:47:41 AM »
I love my father, but I'm starting to wonder if he is a cheapskate. I have a couple of examples:

My mother sometimes makes huge batches of certain foods to take with her when she visits friends or family who are often resting up from illnesses or are just in need of some of her food. She stores this food in those foil containers with cardboard lids and leaves some of them for myself and my father. She has always emphasised to me how reusing them is out of the question, as they aren't safe for such a thing, and even then they are too flimsy to keep their original, useful shape after use. Father saw me moving to throw a used container away and shouted at me about how wasteful I was being, how we could use it again etc. I tried to explain to him that it may not be the best of ideas, but I'm not very good at, well, talking. In the end I waited for him to leave the room and quietly disposed of the container (was that PA of me?)

He also goes to some odd lengths to save himself a few pennies. When we were in another country, he insisted we walk somewhere a long distance away during a storm to save money instead of getting a taxi. Rainstorms which, in this country, are really bad with heavy rain and strong winds. Despite my protests, as I had been living in the country for 5 months at that point and had experienced said storms, he insisted that it would be fine. He didn't lose out on any money, but he made everyone else very unhappy.

My apologies for the length :-[

I hate those containers because they aren't reusable.  The tin part might be reusable once, but the lids become useless after the first time.

As for taxis, I tend to be cheap about those because they are so expensive these days.  However, if the weather is really horrible, my feet hurt, or I'm carrying lots of stuff, I try for one.

My mother was very generous with herself about taxis but would never -- even after her final illness began -- have groceries delivered because she hated tipping people.  She would cringe today at my once-a-month $6 tip to the guy who carries 3 14-lb boxes of cat litter and other stuff up to my 4th floor walkup.  I have bad knees so that $6 spares me pain that lasts through the entire next day.





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« Reply #673 on: April 21, 2013, 10:22:49 AM »
I hate those containers because they aren't reusable.  The tin part might be reusable once, but the lids become useless after the first time.

As for taxis, I tend to be cheap about those because they are so expensive these days.  However, if the weather is really horrible, my feet hurt, or I'm carrying lots of stuff, I try for one.

My mother was very generous with herself about taxis but would never -- even after her final illness began -- have groceries delivered because she hated tipping people.  She would cringe today at my once-a-month $6 tip to the guy who carries 3 14-lb boxes of cat litter and other stuff up to my 4th floor walkup.  I have bad knees so that $6 spares me pain that lasts through the entire next day.

Personally I dislike the containers too because of reusing them is an impossibility (health risks) and we have so many of them. I would agree with my father that it is wasteful, if it were a plastic container from a takeaway (I love those).

Also, sharp corners on a tin container and clumsy people (a.k.a me) don't mix ;D

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Re: Cheapskate stories
« Reply #674 on: April 21, 2013, 10:30:53 AM »
A Problem is that many take-out restaurants here deliver food in very good quality plastic containers with Snap-on lids.  These can be used again and even used to store food in the freezer.  It seems a shame to just dump them in the recycle bin but there are only so many you can use.