If you strongly suspect that someone is misrepresenting their physical address to access services they are not entitled to, you should feel free to report your suspicions and allow the appropriate authorities to investigate. It is the responsibility of those appropriate authorities to both set the rules/requirements for admission and to enforce them.
There is no reason to speak to the woman herself.
I too live in a very sought after public school district. The admission requirements are quite specific and stringent, although one can find ways to get around them. For your perusal this is what our district requires:
FORMS NEEDED FOR REGISTRATION:
All required documents MUST be provided at the time of registration; NO EXCEPTIONS
State law requires that students be 5 on or before September 1st to enroll in kindergarten
1. Parent/Guardian Picture ID
2. Alabama Blue Immunization Card **We cannot accept anything other than the Alabama Blue Card
Cards are obtained through your doctor or public health department
Students will not be enrolled into 6th grade without booster dose of Tdap that is now required for all 11 and 12 year olds
3. Copy of Student's Certified Birth Certificate (not a hospital copy)
4. Social Security Card (can be a copy). If a Social Security Card is not available, the following items will be accepted:
Recent letter from Social Security Office verifying card number
Passport
Military ID
Current tax return (registering student listed as dependent)
Medicaid card with Social Security Number
5. Custody papers (required if student lives with someone other than both parents listed on birth certificate)
*Please Note: For other custody issues or questions, please call or email xxxxxxxxxxx for clarification before arrival.
6. Student withdrawal form from previous school
7. Grade-level Verification
Middle and high school - transcript (unofficial accepted)
Elementary - last report card
8. Proof of Residency (in parent/guardian's name) may include but not limited to one of the following:
Own:
Deed for the residence in use and current utility bill (gas, water or electric)
or
Current property tax receipt for the residence in use and current utility bill (gas, water or electric)
Rent:
Signed lease for the residence in use and current utility bill (gas, water or electric)
Must be signed by both parties or it will not be accepted
Contracts:
Those who have a contract or builder’s contract on a home are required to fill out the Assignment or Transfer Request form prior to registration
9. Registration Forms for students enrolling for 2013-2014 school year - complete the following forms online, print, and bring with you to registration
Must have the following to register:
Parent Information Form - complete one parent form per family, copies will be made as needed
Student Registration Form - (K-12) complete one per child registering for school
Parent Employment Survey - complete one survey per family
National School Lunch Form (optional)