I hate when people feel it is their right to preach to you about your reproductive choices! And the question is just stupid. Are you going to try for a (gender) next? First off, who said there is a next?? Second off, you can't pick what you are having...so if you want x and get z, are you a failure??? Will you have to live in shame because everyone said you had to have an x for your family to be complete??? Yes, this is a sore spot. After I had older DD (a miracle as I was told due to some extreme medical issues there would be no way no how..HA! I showed them!), my MIL said because I showed I could have kids, then we should try to give them a grandson (3rd grand daughter). Mind you, this was said less than an hour after I gave birth! Yeah, we;ll get hopping right to that! Tell co worker that this has been asked and answered and it is no longer a subject you wish to discuss. Give her the icy look while saying it. Honestly, all women of child bearing age should be allowed to wear a sign that says my uterus and scrabble playing is no one's business!