Who was the Rose Lady?
Several years ago my Dad's first cousin died young. (He was found sitting on the floor with a medical book open to symptoms of a heart attack).
His funeral was small - family only, conducted by the same Deacon that helped with Mom's funeral. [size=78%]Cousin had had a problem with drugs previously, but was sober when he died. The immediate family actually published the obit after the funeral so that no "friends" from that time period would show up.[/size]
There was this woman that didn't interact with the family at all and none of us recognized her. She was literally supported by a man, because she was so upset she could barely stand - but she didn't seem high or drunk. She had at least a dozen white roses that she put with him. Cousin was a recluse that lived with his parents, his Dad had Parkinson, and his Mom barely let the rest of us into their house to check on them.