Why, no, I'm not in the least offended that Relative with whom I am on terms of mutual uninterested civility, rather than closeness, did not ask me to be godmother to her child. After all, given that not only am I not a member of her church, but that I am a staunch, long term, and indeed proselytising atheist, it would be a little unusual if she had asked me, don't you think?