Not trying to get this thread closed, but I was not fear-mongering; I was sharing what happened to me at age 13/14.
There were several of us at a relative's house, and three of us were tickle fighting, which led to hugging tightly, trying to get away (testing my strength)and wrestling. It went on more than once, over several visits, and it finally became just the one older relative and me, alone, in a back room.
And that was my first sexual experience. Not rape, but definitely molestation. I have only told two people before now-best friend, and DH. Now, e-hell knows.
And it all began, in public, with family, in the open, with more than one person being tickled.
If ONE person had asked, "hey, are you ok with that? Time to cut it out, that's enough! or, Dude, she said no more, please stop!"
Then maybe I would have not felt alone and confused and wondering what was he doing and why. And, no, I never reported. He is an older man now, and I considered telling his wife, but since I participated, I felt guilty.
It all started with a tickle.
Respect the NO.
Sorry, I have no advice.