It's not quite as bad as throwing a surprise wedding for someone, but it's in the same category. A vow renewal is an intensely personal choice - whether you want to do it at all, and if so, how you do it and who you have in attendance.
So I'd say absolutely not. The potential for hurt feelings, having your parents (legitimately) furious at you and potentially horribly embarrassed in front of family and friends is much too high.