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Author Topic: S/O of Brother and the Milk Glass - Gold Bracelet  (Read 6039 times)

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LadyClaire

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Re: S/O of Brother and the Milk Glass - Gold Bracelet
« Reply #30 on: July 06, 2013, 04:11:08 PM »
I'd give it back. I keep my costume jewelry mixed in with my real jewelry, and I can see accidentally scooping up a valuable bracelet by accident and it ending up in a box of the costume stuff.

There is of course always the chance that it's a very good fake. Did your friend check to see if it has the gold hallmark anywhere on it? I have some gold plated pieces that look like the real thing, but aren't worth more than maybe $10 or $20.

CrazyDaffodilLady

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Re: S/O of Brother and the Milk Glass - Gold Bracelet
« Reply #31 on: July 06, 2013, 07:50:20 PM »
There is obviously doubt about whether or not the giver intended to give the gold bracelet.  So what is the upside of not asking her about it?  The only upside I can think of is that the recipient mom gets a free gold bracelet that possibly wasn't intended as a gift.  Would she be comfortable enough with her decision to casually wear the bracelet in front of the giver?

The downside of not asking is loss of a friendship. 

Mammavan, did your friend ask about the bracelet, and if so, was it given by mistake? 
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