Not long ago, my brother-in-law posted a comment on FB about not being able to find my sister and their kids. It was the middle of the afternoon, and I had gotten a text from my sister earlier with a picture of the kids and some cookies they had all made with cookie cutters I had sent, and I replied with a comment like, "But when you find them, there will be cookies!" (It turns out they were at a neighbor's house and my sister had left her phone off.) (And my BIL did get cookies at the end of it.) I hope I didn't come off as insensitive; I certainly wasn't trying to be. I understand that this CAN mean that something tragic has happened and that people certainly worry; however, most of the time, it's nothing.