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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #60 on: May 30, 2013, 11:37:46 AM »
Thanks to everyone for your great replies!

I've decided to ignore the email. Mainly because I am not vested enough to care about whatever she wants to talk about.  I certainly would never have gone to "their place" and never, ever would have invited them to mine.  Amber and I were never close so the invitation was jinky to me and made me think he was behind it all.

If Amber comes back to the Saturday volunteer work, I can speak with her then. 

Thanks again!

I think you made a wise decision!   ;)

I agree... but the Nosey Nellie in me really wishes you were going. ;)

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #61 on: May 30, 2013, 12:01:39 PM »
I think id reply "Hi, Im really busy for quite a while now - what did you want to talk to me about?"

Try this approach, maybe you won't have to wait until Saturday to find out what's up

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #62 on: May 30, 2013, 12:12:07 PM »
I'm rather relieved you are not going to meet her/them. OP, but kind of sorry for myself. (So nosy!) But I hope you see her again on Saturday just so you can see that she is okay. If so, then whatever is going on is not worth knowing because if she really wanted to talk with you she has had lots of opportunities to do so.

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #63 on: May 30, 2013, 03:05:59 PM »
Thanks to everyone for your great replies!

I've decided to ignore the email. Mainly because I am not vested enough to care about whatever she wants to talk about.  I certainly would never have gone to "their place" and never, ever would have invited them to mine.  Amber and I were never close so the invitation was jinky to me and made me think he was behind it all.

If Amber comes back to the Saturday volunteer work, I can speak with her then. 

Thanks again!

I think you made a wise decision!   ;)

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #64 on: May 31, 2013, 09:02:49 AM »
Thanks to everyone for your great replies!

I've decided to ignore the email. Mainly because I am not vested enough to care about whatever she wants to talk about.  I certainly would never have gone to "their place" and never, ever would have invited them to mine.  Amber and I were never close so the invitation was jinky to me and made me think he was behind it all.

If Amber comes back to the Saturday volunteer work, I can speak with her then. 

Thanks again!

I think you made a wise decision!   ;)

POD

I'd rather get my drama fix from TV or a good book. No need to involve oneself with hinky-acting people!
another pod. .as much as I would like to know what is going on, I wouldn't' want the OP to put themselves in harm's way

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #65 on: June 02, 2013, 03:58:16 PM »
Probably wise to ignore, though I am nosy/curious too!!

My guesses:

1) She wanted to show you how "in love" they are, to prove you wrong (as some PPs suggested)
2) It's really the guy, and he wants to tear a strip off you
3) It's really the guy, and he's hoping for Scrabble with three players
4) She's found herself in a bad situation, realized the OP was the one who had tried to warn her, and now wants to find out more, but is afraid to say anything revealing over email as the guy is reading all her emails.


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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #66 on: June 27, 2013, 10:44:34 AM »
Sounds like she's gone down the rabbit hole with this guy.  The reasoning part of her is aware that things are going screwy but the emotional part wants to prove you wrong.  Maybe her reaching out is both a plea for help and the wish to rub your nose in it.  Lots of people are split like that.

Either way, not your responsibility.  You fulfilled your duty to warn her.  Good on you for not replying.

(Though if you should inadvertently hear something...update please?  >:D)

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #67 on: August 01, 2013, 04:53:14 PM »
Just throwing my voice in for an update on this post.  ;D
Sorry about my spelling.

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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #68 on: August 09, 2013, 02:48:48 PM »
Hello Everyone,

Amber has not returned to the Saturday volunteer job.  Nor has she sent any emails.

I can only hope she is okay.


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Re: Should I Say Anything? Amber Surfaces Post #37
« Reply #69 on: August 09, 2013, 02:52:46 PM »
This matter is fair beyond the purview of an online etiquette forum.