I have a wonderful friend that I just love, but her FB posts are not putting her in the best light. I want to tell her that certain things that she wants to carp about don't make her look good and she might need to re think before she hits post. I know anyone can post anything, but I know with myself, I always re read and think before I hit post. These posts are not offensive or vile, but they are things she shouldn't be revealing because it just doesn't make her personally look good. Is it polite to gently point out, privately, that she is making herself look bad, or is it better to just scroll past and bite my tongue. There have been some comments on her post that have not been real nice and she gets upset, but doesn't get that she is setting herself up for these type of comments.