My brother and I buy each other's kids Christmas presents, but agreed a few years ago not to buy for adults. All went well.
He got married recently. His new wife is lovely, but we don't know each other super well. She has a 5-year-old.
Of course, we'll add her DS into the Christmas present group.
Should I contact my brother, or his new wife to see if she would like to do gifts? I suspect she'll find the idea of not buying for us a bit strange, and will want to get something. I'm happy to buy for them if she wants to, but I'm also happy to stay with the status quo.
I'd leave it as is, but I doubt DB will even think to ask her, and I don't want her to do a bunch of shopping and us to have nothing for them. They live overseas as well, and finding gifts to fit in suitcases for the trip home is always a challenge - part of the reason we decided to stop the buying in the first place.