I'm embarrassed I spent money on a match making service about 8 years ago. 45 and still single - only had 1 introduction that panned out for more than just a first date and it only went to a second date.
Me, too! I went with Lunch Dates. I had 8 of my 10 dates, but none of them were what I was looking for. They all had asked for a redhead, which I am. The only one I had anything in common with (at least on paper) was the computer programmer. Sadly, he only could talk about programming, video games, and ping pong -- fine topics for many, but I wasn't that excited. (The weather was a dead end, the menu was a dead end, seriously - only the three topics). Lots of 'live with my Mom' guys.
I've also on-line data with no success.