I want my organs donated. Then I would like to be cremated before a service. No caskets, no viewing. I don't want the service in a funeral home. It could be in one of the small meeting rooms at our church or another non-religious location. Something on the small side. Mostly, I'd like the people I love to get together, comfort and support each other, and share some memories. I always find that to be the most cathartic part of these services.
Music would be central to the service. I would want "Thanksgiving" by Poi Dog Pondering, "The Ballad of El Goodo" by Big Star, "Give Me Love" by George Harrison, "Living Life" by Daniel Johnston/K McCarty, and "Hummingbird" by Wilco to be played along with several others.
I'd like my ashes to be spread at a beautiful state park in my city or another location I love, like northwestern Wisconsin, the Grand Canyon, or the Rocky Mountains.