My step sister just whipped the girls out at a Thanksgiving meal in front of relatives..no cover, nothing. My dad and brother were so uncomfortable that all conversation ceased as everyone tried to focus on the turkey carcass. I have absolutely no problem with BF'ing, but IMO, a cover is necessary when at a dinner with mixed company. This woman would NEVER be allowed back again, simply because she is so darn self righteous about her ability to have a golden child, and no matter what you will say, she will counter it because you could never,ever produce and raise such a perfect specimen of a child as she has and because she has no concept of how she should act in someone's house. Whipping out the girls, lecturing and scolding you, changing a diaper without a changing pad, child on dinner table, mad that you didn't make food that was not only palatable to adults but an 8 month old? Yeah, she sounds like a peach! How was the husband? And how did your husband respond to this woman?