I'm prone to a kind of benign skin tumor called dermatofibroma, which present as a hard lump under the skin. They're absolutely harmless, painless and non transmissible. Surgical removal is the only option to get rid of them. My dr has advised against this unless they're causing problems (I have medical issues which cause slow healing and increase the likelihood of infection).
Anyway. I have one of these suckers in a Very Intimate Area. At the moment I'm not in a rel@tionship, but it WILL be noticed by any future partner. His first thought will almost certainly be that it's a symptom of Something Unpleasant and Catching.
I have no idea how to handle this. Logic says the best thing to do is bring it up before the situation arises, but how do you start that conversation?? Do any e-Hellions have advice?
(The Lump in question has been shown to my dr and confirmed as one of these tumors, rather than anything Nasty.)