He said he was feeling such sadness because he knows she is not ready for a relationship now but he is the best for her
He knows what she wants and needs and would treat her better and love her more than any other man she knows.
..he ended it with "well let's think about it"
Whoa nelly! Those are three huge RED FLAGS right there. And I'm not usually the one to say that.
Those three statements are manipulative, narcissitic, and honestly, he sounds like a proto-abuser, if he isn't one already. I'd lay a £100 bet that his exes have some stories.
It's all about him, and how he feels. He doesn't actually care about her, at all. This is about satisfying his ego. He won't listen to her when she says 'no'. These are bad signs. I honestly couldn't have written a better 'NiceGuy' script if I'd tried. He
knows her mind better than she does, if she'd just stop being so silly and see things from his point of view, she'd realise that she owes
him a relationship
, because he's just that great of a guy.
Honestly, Jenni needs to CUT ALL TIES. Now, now, run, don't walk, now! I've seen what happens when the Maxes of this world are denied their 'rights'. It's not good.