My DD got married some months ago. A very good friend of mine (single male, I'll call him friend 1) attended, but never gave a gift. This was unusual, because he's a very generous man, and I was really afraid the gift got lost, but didn't know what to say.
well, the other day, purely by chance, I found out what happened. Another single male friend of ours (friend 2) also attended. Before the wedding he had sent a very nice gift.
turns out the gift was from BOTH friends, and not just friend2 . There was no card or anything with it, so I had just assumed it was from friend 2.