OP, here. To clarify, from what DF said, the pictures that DIL posted included everyone else that was there except DF. There were no more than 20 people so. After reading the replies, and knowing DF, it is possible she was a little PA. I could see she would be a little hurt but if so, GrandmaNerd certainly suggested a better way of handling it. Also, it was the DIL who told her husband, DF son, that DF was being snarky.