This is my original FB post
I was having a conversation with a co worker today and we were discussing etiquette in regards to weddings, wedding and baby showers. She felt that cash bars in any sense were rude, you should only have one shower period, and that the bride or mother to be shouldn't plan there shower. What are your opinions?
I received several responses
Mine- i think cash bars for alcohol are fine, but I don't think your guest should have to pay for the soda, tea, coffee, or non alcoholic choices. I think that each child should be celebrated, but when you have quite a bit of children 9-12 months apart after awhile what else could you possibly need.
Yesterday at 5:37pm · Like
Hers-I definitely don't think cash bars are rude, a lot of money goes into having a wedding an as a bride /groom you should choose how you want to spend that money. Especially if you attended a wedding didn't bring a gift or spend any money you should have really no complaints about paying for pop , juice etc.
Yesterday at 9:09pm · Like
But these are mine and hers