She got a call from her ex last week, It was a missed facetime call then nothing. She's trying to stay positive and think maybe she was reaching out.... I'm not sure. I have been trying to keep the wedding talk to a minimum because she's still pretty torn up. Sis told me that even if she met someone she clicked with again the heartache of it going wrong is not worth it to her. She'd rather just be single. I support her and won't try to convince her otherwise.. because I simply don't know if she will be single forever, she might be! I have a friend who rarely dates, just turned 40 and a past relationship from her early 30's screwed her up so bad that she refuses. Tim Gunn hasn't dated in 26 years or so... it's okay if she wants to stay single.