Nope - it was crystal clear that it was a loan. There was just no specific length of time mentioned.
Hmm...maybe I should look into that baby shower idea...KIDDING!! JUST KIDDING!!
I did actually have a shower each time, but the second one was a complete surprise to me, small, and thrown by a friend who didn't know me the first time I was pregnant.
In fact, I only found out about the second shower the day it happened, because I'd had plans to see a movie (I thought) with my friend that evening, but I was really, really sick the night before and I wound up in the hospital for a few hours so they could make sure everything was okay. I didn't feel up to going out, and was going to call my friend to cancel, but DH was all, no you HAVE to go. I told him he was nuts, I'd been so sick and just got home from the hospital and no way was I going out anywhere -- and he finally had to tell me what was going on. I called my friend and it meant so much to her to have done it for me, so I went. Looking and feeling like hell, I went. And had lots of fun.