I find out that not only has he hurt my feelings more than he would ever know, he couldn't be a man (which was part of the reason we broke up) and explain the situation
This kinda twanged a chord with me "he couldn't be a man"
Then the answering machine message just kind of puts her over the top. Speaking of clue by fours, the OP needs to be smacked with one. He wasn't returning your calls, you weren't invited to this wedding or his cousins - back off babe!