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kherbert05

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It is in the tone and attitude
« on: January 10, 2007, 08:29:49 PM »
Today as I was packing up my stuff to leave, a member of the PTO came in to ask me a question. I asked her to wait just a moment, till I finished packing. I tend to leave things when people interupt me. When I put the power cord up I took out my IPod out and stuck it in my pocket.

She says, "You aren't going to listen to that in the car"

Me, "yea I have

She starts lecturing me up in my space at high volume "Don't you know how dangerous that is I' can't believe you could be so reckless"

I told her sharply, "Either stop or leave my classroom.

She stopped and I completed my sentence I have a device that plays the ipod through my stereo - much safer than even the radio, because I program what I want to listen to for the whole commute. I don't get irritated at the DJ and have to change channels"

UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG she is so UGGGGGGGG

Now contrast this with a 4th grader.

Same situation except I'm sync the Ipod (My off period, student came by to ask a question)

Student: What is that Ms. Herbert?

Me: I'm putting the songs and podcast I want to listen while I drive home on the IPod

Student shyly "Ms. Herbert, my brother got a ticket for wearing headphones when he was driving. My Mom got real mad because he wouldn't be able to hear a police car or ambulance

Me - Your mom is 1,000% correct, that's why I have a device to play the Ipod thought the car stereo

Student - That's neat Ms. J wants to know if .....

9 yo beats adult hands down in the politeness arena.

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Re: It is in the tone and attitude
« Reply #1 on: January 10, 2007, 08:44:20 PM »
It amazes me how kids can sometimes be so much more polite than adults around them. Some kids i know have grown up with the rudest, loudest, most obnoxious parents but still can be gently-spoken and unfailingly polite.




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Re: It is in the tone and attitude
« Reply #2 on: January 10, 2007, 09:46:01 PM »
We could take a lesson from kids sometimes...I hope that teacher felt mighty crunchy...
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