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TMI
« on: January 11, 2007, 11:17:17 AM »
I work in a lab whose office manager is a single mom.  Our boss is incredible: as long as the work gets done on time, he doesn't care when or where you work, and unless you had a meeting with him that day, you don't need to call in sick.  However, I think our office manger is constantly afraid of that changing. 

OM frequently has to work from home due to one sick kid or another.  Every time this happens, I get a frantic phone call from OM saying she's so sorry she can't be here, but to assure the doctor that she's working from home.  Without pausing for a response from me, she then goes into explicit detail about what's wrong with her child.  I really don't need to know about her daughter's first menstruation or her son's diarrhea, including the frequency and consistency of said problem.  My attempts at firmly saying her name and that I don't need to know more never seem to stop her long, rambling explanation.

Do y'all have any advice to stop this behavior so that I can enjoy my morning coffee and not panic when the phone rings?  Thanks!

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Re: TMI
« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2007, 11:19:36 AM »
How about saying, "Okay, I'll pass on the message. Got to go!" and then hanging up?

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Re: TMI
« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2007, 11:25:13 AM »
If you have already tried telling her it's TMI DURING the situation, how about talking to her the day she returns? "OM, I appreciate that you call in, but I dont want to know the details of the sickness.  I will be sure to pass the message along to BOSS that you wont be in, but anything beyond that should be discussed between you and him.  Thanks for understanding."

If she continues, I say it's ok to hang up on her.  {interrupts} OK thanks for the info, I'll pass the message along {click}.
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Re: TMI
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2007, 11:39:15 AM »
I would talk to her about it.    I have a weak stomach, and if I had to hear that,  I would be out sick!



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Re: TMI
« Reply #4 on: January 11, 2007, 11:47:52 AM »
MyBoss has a strict policy. She ony needs when we are going to be out and for how long. She does not want to know why. Her exact words: "I Don't CARE!"

btw, I wish I had your boss :(
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Re: TMI
« Reply #5 on: January 11, 2007, 12:09:58 PM »
Good ideas folks.  This is why I love EHellions.  I think next time I'll try saying, "Thanks for letting me know" after the first part of the conversation and then hanging up before she can get into details.  If that doesn't work, I guess I'll have to talk to her about it, even if I hate confrontations.

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Re: TMI
« Reply #6 on: January 11, 2007, 01:56:19 PM »
Who stays home because their daughter has her period??
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Re: TMI
« Reply #7 on: January 11, 2007, 03:01:01 PM »
The same woman who stays home with her son who has a hurt knee because she doesn't want him to be embarassed in P.E.

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« Reply #8 on: January 11, 2007, 09:14:39 PM »
Heaven help the workforce when those two get out in it...
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Re: TMI
« Reply #9 on: January 12, 2007, 12:06:45 PM »
Methinks she doth protest too much. ... People who embroider huge amounts of unnecessary detail are often covering up something else.  I'd be a little concerned that this woman is pulling something.  As long as she's not violating policy or abusing the system, fine; but keep a thoughtful eye out.

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I agree. I have two co-irkers like this (the Princess and the Slacker). We get all the grisely details every.single.time ... and I'm certain that both abuse the system.

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Re: TMI
« Reply #10 on: January 12, 2007, 01:44:05 PM »
I honestly don't think she's abusing the system to cover wild behavior on her part, even if she does overindulge her kids.