I didn't want to hijack this thread, so I thought I would start a new one.
One of my best friends, Sarah, has been dating someone for about 8 months, Jack. They have talked marriage, but aren't engaged at this point. My Jack has a lot of friends from high school, many of them girls. Sarah likes most of his girl friends, and has no problems with them. She's not the jealous type.
Jack has some old high school girl friends coming in from out of state tonight. He did not invite Sarah because he said that these friends get catty and rude when other girls are around. He said that the last time they were in town, another group of girls came over and brought them cookies and tried to be very friendly, but the out of towners were rude and basically snubbed them. So, it was uncomfortable.
We were at dinner last week, and Jack said that his friend never said that Sarah couldn't come, but because of what happened last time, he knew that it wouldn't go very well if Sarah came. Sarah was upset, not because she's jealous, but because she feels that it's a loyalty thing and why would he want to be friends with *itchy, insecure girls? She also said that she's not just some random friend, that she's his girlfriend and what will happen when they get engaged or married?
For her, it's the principle of the matter, not that she really wants to go. So, what say you, eHellions? Does she have the right to be angry? Is she blowing it out of proportion?