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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #45 on: December 07, 2006, 05:32:08 PM »
Yep --- our house is decorated in "bookcase eclectic"  From Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Historical Novels, Reference books (I am in the Society for Creative Anachronism) those piles just seem to grow with each "new" craft that I get involved in  :P

I hated English class too.  Most of the books I had already read or were too "childish" for MY tastes.  The idea that we couldn't handle reading the whole story but our English book put just enough of the book in it to get you involved and then drop it for another *part* of another story is to me stupid. The worst part is that they used obscure books that I had no chance of finding in our little bitty town.

The school Librarian was no help either, in grade school we were not allowed to read *anything* out of our grade level. HELLO --- all summer long I was reading out of the "adult" side of the library, and now I can't read anything but 3rd grade books. It was a VERY boring time until Dad (who was not a reader) took the matter up with her.

But it does my heart good when I see kids with books.  My friends son found a Pern novel at the school library and was in awe that his Dad was cool enough to have almost the whole series.

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #46 on: December 07, 2006, 06:00:33 PM »
I got in trouble a few times for reading ahead of the class, because knowing what came next ruined the teacher's assignments.

You too?! I thought I was the only one! I got good really quick at reading the assignment, doing the questions and  then continuing on to my hearts desire. It was the "in class discussion" about foreshadowing or whatever that I got in trouble about b/c I couldnt remember where the assignment stopped

You've just described me, too! :D  Shame on us for actually WANTING to read the book and not staying behind with the rest of the class!


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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #47 on: December 07, 2006, 06:05:50 PM »
I blame it mostly on school forcing me to read literary garbage like To Kill a Mockingbird.

I know what you're trying to say.  But, I kinda, sorta take slight offense (on behalf of Ms. Lee!) at that comment.

You didn't enjoy that book.  Which is perfectly fine.  But, describing it as "literary garbage" is exactly my point earlier in the thread.  Not everyone likes the same genre of literature.  What appeals to you may not appeal to me.  Everyone needs to find their own niche in order to love books.  No book should ever be described as "garbage" because it discourages those who may love that book or genre from realizing that love.  Everyone should be encouraged to find the kind of book or story that really helps them get lost in the book.

Sorry!  Not trying to pick on your post.  That one phrase just got to me. Didn't quite seem needed to make the point! :)


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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #48 on: December 07, 2006, 09:09:09 PM »
My step brother is 12 and it is the same way. When he was younger my mom (he lives with his mom) would set aside an hour before bed where we all had to turn off the tv's and stuff and it was reading time. You would have thought she was sentencing him to life in prison! He thought it was such punishment that he had to read for an hour.

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #49 on: December 08, 2006, 08:04:13 AM »
Count me in as another big fan of reading (glowing covers and all).

I can understand why for some it's a chore. There are those that are dislexic, or who just don't think in the whole words=image=story=mood kind of way. And then of course there's no accounting for taste. I'll read just about anything, but my brother despite growing up surrounded by books just wasn't interested until the Christmas I gave him Growing Up Brady. Much to my mother's chagrin it was the first and only time she simply could not get his nose out of a book.

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #50 on: December 08, 2006, 09:36:59 AM »
I used to read under my covers with a light too! It is the going theory for why my eyes started going bad so rapidly when I was a kid. Until this forum I had never met anyone else who had done this as a child lol. Glad to know there are other "crazy" bookworms out there :)
 


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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #51 on: December 08, 2006, 10:10:22 AM »
Athos_000, you'll be glad to know that according to a doctor friend of mine "you can no more damage your eyes reading in low light than you can damage a camera taking a picture with insufficient flash".

However, I've noticed that as my eyes have started to deteriorate as I get older, I find it much harder to read in low light.  Perhaps that's where the idea came from?
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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #52 on: December 08, 2006, 02:41:32 PM »
As someone who is addicted to reading (literally!), I have a few theories about why people don't read.

1.  They grew up in homes where the parents didn't encourage reading.  The parents didn't read, and didn't read to the kids.  In my case, both parents read to me, I saw them reading, and most importantly, I had an adult (grandmother) who not only loved reading but would talk to me about books and would recommend books and stories to me.  Having someone you look up to say "You know, I was reading this book and thought you would like it" makes a real difference.

2.  Schools too often take the "fun" out of reading by making is compulsory.  Let a kid choose the book, and you're much more likely said kid will read it.  Even if the book is too advanced for the kid, let them figure it out on their own.  I started reading Jane Eyre when I was 10, and at first could only get through the school days part of the book.  As I got older, I advanced through Rochester Hall, and finally was in my late 20's before I was able to read the book cover to cover.  But even before then, I read and re-read the parts I could comprehend and enjoy.

3.  Censor their reading sensibly.  In my case, I babysat for a couple that had some very ...interesting... books, which resulted in my asking my mother what a specific term meant (I was 12).  She swallowed hard, but explained.  Since she knew she couldn't truly censor my reading, instead she asked that I come to her with any questions and we'd discuss them.  I learned a lot that way.

4.  Give kids time to read.  Too often parents fill the kids days with activity after activity, they don't get the time to just sit and play, or read. 

5.  Let kids read to you, instead of you always reading to them.  Even if said kid can't read all the words yet, letting them tell you the story (based on the pictures) is a great way for them to exercise their imaginations.

Finally, 6.  Give books as gifts.  All my nieces and nephews have gotten books from me from the beginning.  My one rule is that I never give a book to them that I haven't previously read (at least a copy of).  And I always include a note with the book explaining why I chose said book -- oftentimes, because I'd read it when I was about their age and had loved it.

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #53 on: December 08, 2006, 07:49:21 PM »


  My mother, in the 70s, was always on me to "get up and DO something", when I preferred to have my nose in a book. 
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deja vu:  my own Mother's pronouncement when she caught me reading in the daytime:   "If you don't have anything better to do than THAT, I'll GIVE you something to do."

An older cousin had given me all her books one summer, when she outgrew such childish things.    I was thankful for the BIG trees all around the lawn---I spent several weeks up a big pecan tree, reading every Tarzan in print.  

And one of the greatest disappointments in my young life was, when at ten, I carried the big volume of Sherlock Holmes back to the library and found out that THERE WERE NO MORE.   And never would be. :'(

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #54 on: December 08, 2006, 10:35:53 PM »
deja vu:  my own Mother's pronouncement when she caught me reading in the daytime:   "If you don't have anything better to do than THAT, I'll GIVE you something to do."

I guess this explains people who think that reading is a waste of time.

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« Reply #55 on: December 08, 2006, 10:55:24 PM »


  My mother, in the 70s, was always on me to "get up and DO something", when I preferred to have my nose in a book. 

deja vu:  my own Mother's pronouncement when she caught me reading in the daytime:   "If you don't have anything better to do than THAT, I'll GIVE you something to do."

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That's funny, because my parents' stock answer to "I'm bored" was "Go read a book," lol. 

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #56 on: December 09, 2006, 01:36:23 AM »


My problem is I'm a visual learner - I prefer film, animation, or comics/graphic novels to convey a plot rather than words. My miniscule book collection consists mostly of comics and manga, a book fo Poe's work, and two non-fiction/informative books

I'm the opposite of you. I can't stand comic books. On the other hand, I like most novels--as long as they are competently written.

I wouldn't say To Kill a Mockingbird was "garbage," though. It wouldn't have achieved the enduring popularity it has if it was.  ;)

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #57 on: December 09, 2006, 10:59:05 AM »
Well, one thing that I will say ... reading for school was a chore for me despite the fact that I am a very avid reader (I read through my town's library--about equivalent to a branch library in a city system--by age 17, and I mean I read everything in the library except the reference books).

I lived out in the middle of nowhere until 4th grade, so I had no idea there was such a thing as a public town library until I was 9, when we moved into town.  At that time our library was tiny!  Downstairs was the kids part, upstairs the adult part.  In one year I had read EVERY book in the kids section (10 books at a time every 3 days or so).  The librarian didn't think I was actually reading them, but I could tell her all about every one of them.

Then I started going upstairs.  They wouldn't let me check out any books because all I had was a kids library card, so I would sit there for hours everyday reading.  Again, I had to "prove" to the librarian that I was reading the books and that I did understand them.  I was the first 10 year old in the library's history to get an adult card. And then I started buying the old medical books at the book sales.  I had quite a collection of realllllly old medical books by the age of 12.  I even had a medical dictionary from 1865.

Now I have been reading through Project Gutenberg.  www.gutenberg.org  Enjoy!

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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #58 on: December 09, 2006, 11:30:57 AM »
When I was in 8th grade reading class, I upset the entire class during one of those boring "you can only read the assigned chapters" sessions.  I had read the whole book quicky and liked it ok.  Summer of my German Soldier, FYI.  The teacher wanted up to speculate if a marriage would occur in the future.  I blurted out,"but _________DIES!" and the entire class sent me looks of dismay. 

This same teacher at least realized that I was an avid reader and soon after had a meeting with my mom to try and place me out of her class so I would not be so bored.  Unfortunately, my boredom had led to careless work and my grades were not high enough to move out.

I finally in HS moved myself up (long story) from a class where they were going to spend the entire semester learning how to do a 5 paragraph essay to a class that did a five paragraph theme the very first day of class. 

I read to my kids in the womb and we have also had to remove books as a form as punishment.

And to whomever said they had books in every room except the bathroom, you are missing a great hide-out!  That was where I escaped my brothers and read for hours.  Now, as a mommy, I only keep quick reads in the bathroom, but I do have a little bookshelf in there!  :
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Re: Reading is a chore?
« Reply #59 on: December 09, 2006, 08:30:10 PM »
I know a couple of people already said something like this, but reading 5 pages and answering questions about them is a chore.  I have always loved to read, and devoured libraries as a kid, but I absolutely hated reading novels for class.  Dividing a book up into teachable blocks just ruined the flow and took all the fun out of getting carried away with the story!  I got in trouble a few times for reading ahead of the class, because knowing what came next ruined the teacher's assignments.  But seriously, if you are assigned The Hobbit, you just don't stop reading at the first appearance of Smaug because the teacher said so! >:(
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I got transferred out of one English class and into another after an English teacher went off on my parents about how I had ruined the entire semester. We weren't even reading full novels (This was senior English), we were reading stupid "Selections" from the stupid lit book. She confiscated a copy of The Count of Monte Cristo. I just had it in class wasn't reading it. She ranted to them about how I was ruining the entire year - because I had already read everything she introduced.

I was transferred out the next day before my parents could even complain. Apparently she had been accused of marking down anyone in extracurriculars. They had teachers from another school mark our papers (not sure how they did that) and found we were graded harder and given lower grades when compared to students not in extra curriculars.

A couple years later they were able to prove the coffee she kept in her thermos was "spiked" with something. She was fired at that point.

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