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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #15 on: January 21, 2007, 10:16:07 AM »
I would give anything just to get a card from my mom-it wouldn't matter. It could be silly, inappropriate, wouldn't matter. My mom passed away 8 years ago. So count your blessings. She is still with you. So what if she treats you as her baby? You still are- to her at least. And let me tell you something, when you join the "dead mom's" club, you will realize that now you are nobody's baby, and that my friend is the loneliest feeling in the world. Enjoy her while you have her.

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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #16 on: January 21, 2007, 10:53:13 AM »

Last Easter BF's dad made us do an Easter egg hunt but instead of eggs we hunted for those little airplane sized bottles of liquor!


I am SO hijacking this idea for my sister next Easter!

As for Parents and cute little things they do thay annoy us.  My dad always used to send me princess cards for my birthday, I was the biggest tom Boy EVER.  And it annoyed me to no end.  Then he died suddenly when I was 20.  I've had a hard time celebrating my birthday ever since.  Parents do things for their kids because they love them, no matter how wacky or annoying they may seem, the parent always has the best intentions when doing it.  Cherish the fact that your mother is still remembering your birthday, if your 47, your Mom isn't young anymore.  My Mom is 55, my grandmother is in a nursing home and Mom's lucky if Nana even remembers her name, much less how they know one another.

And my family DF's family still does stockings.  It's our favorite part of Christmas Eve.  Usually filled with stuff we need, like batteries, chap stick, nail files, hair scrunchies.. but there's usually a nice treat in there somewhere, a bar of Lindt dark chocolate or a bag of reese's.  It's just a fun way to remember being a kid and always sparks an old holiday story.
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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #17 on: January 21, 2007, 01:52:39 PM »
I would give anything just to get a card from my mom-it wouldn't matter. It could be silly, inappropriate, wouldn't matter. My mom passed away 8 years ago. So count your blessings. She is still with you. So what if she treats you as her baby? You still are- to her at least. And let me tell you something, when you join the "dead mom's" club, you will realize that now you are nobody's baby, and that my friend is the loneliest feeling in the world. Enjoy her while you have her.

Whether you will miss them when they are gone depends on the relationship you have now.

I'm my mother's "baby" when I visit her. I would never wish her any harm (I'm not that mean) but I will be thrilled when this is over.

I am Dad's "little precious princess" as well, and I get cards addressed to Princess (I don't know what the mailman thinks of it, lol) and things like stuffed animals for my Birthday. The main reason he does this is because he is getting senile, and a bit lonely (he lives by himself). I get kind of choked up thinking about how bad his health is, and what will happen when he is gone. Not the same reaction at all.
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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #18 on: January 22, 2007, 10:41:31 AM »
I would give anything just to get a card from my mom-it wouldn't matter. It could be silly, inappropriate, wouldn't matter. My mom passed away 8 years ago. So count your blessings. She is still with you. So what if she treats you as her baby? You still are- to her at least. And let me tell you something, when you join the "dead mom's" club, you will realize that now you are nobody's baby, and that my friend is the loneliest feeling in the world. Enjoy her while you have her.

I was raised from 6 weeks on by my maternal grandparents, so to me they were always and in all ways, Mom and Dad. My actual mother is more like a favorite aunt and we've had a rocky relationship at times through the years. Now she's like a wierd aunt who's getting kooky, er, kookier!  I'm already a member of that club, and when I visit Mom and Dad's grave, I always kneel there for awhile and tell them all that's going on and how much I miss them, and can never get through those moments without some real tears flowing.  When my mother is gone, yes, I'll miss her, but not like I miss my grandparents.  I'll take my daughter with me on my next visit there and start to tell her of the wonderful people from whom she came and how many things I have to pass along from them.
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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #19 on: January 22, 2007, 12:19:54 PM »
NYGirl100 wrote:

"We go out of our way to find inappropriate card for occassions.  I got a Happy Bar-Mitvah card for our wedding, for example."

Were I to seek the most inappropriate card for a wedding, wouldn't a "Condolences for your loss" card be the perfect fit?  Something to keep in mind...

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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #20 on: January 22, 2007, 12:41:49 PM »
I see where that would be irritating, but as the mother of a grown son, I know for a fact that its hard to find a card for an adult child.  They all seem to be written for children.  Your mom may have been doing the best she could with the selection she found.

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Re: Deja Vu: My Mom Thinks I'm Four Also
« Reply #21 on: January 23, 2007, 11:39:37 AM »
NYGirl100 wrote:

"We go out of our way to find inappropriate card for occassions.  I got a Happy Bar-Mitvah card for our wedding, for example."

Were I to seek the most inappropriate card for a wedding, wouldn't a "Condolences for your loss" card be the perfect fit?  Something to keep in mind...

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My brother got me a card for my 21st that read "To a Special Young Man on his Confirmation" - I'm a girl and thought it was hilarious. For his 21st several years later I got him a card saying "Deepest Sympathy for your Loss".
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