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Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« on: November 27, 2007, 02:37:56 PM »
My weekend from hell...began two weeks prior to Thanksgiving when my sis called and invited my daughter & I to spend Thanksgiving weekend with her and her daughter and have turkey dinner at her house with my brother's family also.

It is a six hour drive (at rapid speed with no stops) and I told her we would leave noonish Thanksgiving day and start her way - I knew I would be too tired after work on Wednesday and didn't want to chance the long drive in the dark while tired.

We got off earlier Thursday than I had planned and left in an ice storm for sis' house.  After 3 hours the snow stopped and it was just COLD.  My brother called to wish us a happy turkey day and I told him we would be in sooner than anticipated and I needed directions to sis' house.  He said, "she's gone to XYZ City for dinner."  I said, " I thought we were doing this at sister's house?"  He said, "no, just come to my place, we cooked".  Fourtunately, my brother made room for us and we were very comfortable and there was certainly plenty of food, but they really weren't expecting additional guests for an overnight stay.  We escaped the next day - late. I am furious with my selfish, self-centered sister, but what else is new?

I saw my sister late Friday afternoon, just before we left.  I said, "I thought we were doing this at your house and you invited me to stay with you."  She said, "No, I went to bf's house for dinner and came back late last night."  I never got an apology or a thank you for coming or whatever!!!  So I basically spent 12 hours on the road to spend 24 hours with my dysfunctional family. 

Someone dared ask me what I was doing for Christmas?   



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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #1 on: November 27, 2007, 02:46:40 PM »
I'm so sorry that happened!  That has to be one of the rudest things I've heard.  You don't invite someone over and then go somewhere else!  I'd stay home at Christmas too...

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #2 on: November 27, 2007, 05:03:40 PM »
Oh my stars!  That may very well be the worst Thanksgiving story I've ever read.  I am so sorry that your sister did that to you.  Did she even admit that she invited you and then bailed?

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #3 on: November 27, 2007, 05:08:33 PM »
Sounds like you've got a good brother, though right?

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #4 on: November 27, 2007, 05:26:58 PM »
Your sis sounds like she'd fit right in Val and Viv! Vainity and vapidness are the adjectives which come to mind.

I think I'd keep this experience in mind for future invites with your sister. Staying home for Christmas is the right idea.

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #5 on: November 27, 2007, 08:05:53 PM »
No, she never admitted she had planned the dinner.  Even my brother knew I was planning on going there and his family was too until she told them she had other plans.  No one thought to call me, I loved seeing my brother, but it was an inconvenience for them to have to put me up for the night. 

When I said non-confrontally to my sister "the last thing I heard was that we were eating at your house and I was staying with you," she said, "hmmm I went to BF's house yesterday in xyz city and then came home late last night."

I just sat there in shock and her next words were, "I got such a headache yesterday I had to have son drive us home."  Subject closed & over.

I had told my brother she would just gloss over it and she did. My brother asked me to join them for Christmas but I already have plans with a friend to do something else.  He said bring her along and I said she doesn't want to.  (She had to spend four days with her dysfunctional family-we want to do something FUNCTIONAL & FUN for us).

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #6 on: November 27, 2007, 08:23:20 PM »
I'm really sorry you had to go through that.  That's a loooong drive to make for someone who really sounds like she doesn't have her head screwed on right.
Wishing you a Christmas of relaxation and fond memories.

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #7 on: November 27, 2007, 08:48:48 PM »
How flippin' rude.

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #8 on: November 27, 2007, 08:56:44 PM »
Time to start new traditions at your house.  Stay home.   We wouldn't drive around the block in an ice storm for dinner at any sister's house.

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #9 on: November 27, 2007, 11:16:33 PM »
Unplug the phone, barricade the door, and enjoy a nice glass (or twenty) of wine for Christmas.  >:D

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #10 on: November 28, 2007, 07:44:07 AM »
oh. my. god. that is just so..... i don't know what. rude, dysfunctional, unbelievable, stupid, mean? i am glad your brother stepped in, and i am glad that you have other plans for christmas.

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #11 on: November 28, 2007, 08:47:47 AM »
How RUDE!!!

I am so sorry you had to feal with that. Stay home for Christmas. Do something YOU enjoy and forget about her, ya know...like she forgot about you?

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #12 on: November 28, 2007, 11:46:23 AM »
That is rude beyond belief. I would be furious even if it were a random day of the week, but on THANKSGIVING???? What a rude, tacky, thoughtless thing to do to someone! :o

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Re: Stood up for Thanksgiving Dinner
« Reply #13 on: November 28, 2007, 12:04:07 PM »
Un-freakin'-believable. :o
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