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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #15 on: December 03, 2007, 02:21:59 PM »
My favorite thing as a preteen/teen was to arrange (and rearrange, and rearrange) the presents under the tree and gently manipulate them to see if I could figure out what was inside. A few presents always showed up only on Christmas morning, from Santa Daddy. I suspect this is because he left the wrapping until the last minute.  :D

Pre-children, my husband and I always put the presents out as soon as we got the tree up. Now that we have two kids, we often don't get the tree up until the weekend before Christmas, and we don't put the presents out until Christmas Eve after the kids go to bed. With a 4.5-year-old and a 20-month-old, if they could get at the presents, within five minutes there would be nothing left to open.  ;D Sometimes my mom gives the girls one present each to open early; I object to that because I think it dilutes the effect of Christmas morning, but hey, she's Gramma and she has special privileges.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #16 on: December 03, 2007, 02:25:11 PM »
The green Christmas tree was put up in the formal livingroom, shaped like a bowling alley. Anything wrapped went under that tree as soon as it was wrapped. My parents always went wayyyyyy overboard for Christmas, and as the family grew, so did the stack of gifts "under" the tree. To the point where they would continue in something like six feet all the way around the tree. People are often overwhelmed at the sight, until they're reminded that this loot is for three generations.

Gift baskets and such that contained food or perfumed substances didn't belong there, but unless it was obvious an item contained food or something else the dogs and/or cat would find irresistible we'd learn the hard way.

I knew someone with a horror story about a huge gift box of various cheeses that the giver had chosen to wrap and hand over well before Christmas without any warning to the recipient. Who had a Lab puppy. That wound up hospitalized from excess cheese consumption in one night. To this day, Patty teases that dog with, "Want some cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese?"


Our Santa gifts were a whole 'nother story, and magically appeared in the family room with the tacky silver tinsel tree (yes, I want one now, but I think I want it in purple), sorted by kid.

In my home, wrapped gifts will go under the tree as soon as it goes up, and as soon as they're wrapped. The stuff we buy each other as gifts that were meant for Christmas but needed sooner (like massage units for a desk chair), will have their empty boxes put under the tree as reminders that they really were part of the gift list.
 

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #17 on: December 03, 2007, 02:27:58 PM »
While it's just my husband and I in our little apartment, we put wrapped gifts under the tree (that's where they are right now!) due to storage issues, really. Plus, I think it looks pretty  ;D

When we have kids, I'll wait until they have gone to bed on Christmas Eve and then put the gifts under the tree. That's what my parents did, and it makes Christmas morning more exciting, IMO.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #18 on: December 03, 2007, 02:33:09 PM »
As for having it spoil the surprise - my mother was always the master of messing with your perceptions.

She'd take a tiny pair of earring, and wrap them in a refrigerator box fill with crumpled newspaper. Or she take an object, wrap towel around it into a ball, then wrap it like an enormous hard-candy. Or she'd take something very large, leave it in another room, and put a teeny picture of it in a teeny box, and wrap that.

When friends would come over, the odd assortment of shapes and sizes was the source of much awe, and much futile guessing. She always had a blast doing it.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #19 on: December 03, 2007, 02:34:47 PM »
I see no problem one way or another - up to the family.

Personally, I like to put them out on Christmas Eve. It is one of our rituals and marks the beginning of Christmas itself (while putting up the tree is the beginning of the Christmas season, if you can understand the difference).

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #20 on: December 03, 2007, 02:38:36 PM »
Our family has 'issues' with gifts.  As in, we buy gifts in advance but then can't wait to exchange them.  DH already has most of his Christmas presents because he needed them for his new job (new wardrobe and business gear)

We also, dealing with the traditions of several blended families, extend the celebration over a couple of days.  DH's stepdad always did Christmas with his kids on Christmas Eve (I'm not sure why) so we see them on Christmas Eve every year, and exchange with them.  Christmas Day we celebrate with DH's mom & stepdad & siblings (& whatever step-siblings want to come back over)

We need to make some changes though because I want to go to Christmas Eve services at our church.  But I don't want to miss out on seeing the other half of the family, so we have to figure something out for that.

My family growing up had one tradition that I have tried to continue, which is getting to open one present on Christmas Eve.  The package always contained new pajamas.  I'm trying to continue the Christmas pajamas tradition but DH thinks it's silly.  And getting pjs isn't nearly as exciting for the kids when they get all kinds of gifts from their aunts and uncles anyway.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #21 on: December 03, 2007, 02:41:59 PM »
We always put ours out as soon as they are wrapped (because I LOVE looking at all the pretty paper under the tree  ;D).  Santa leaves his gifts by the fireplace...

I don't see anything wrong with putting them out as they are wrapped. 

Unless there is a reason not to-such as the His Highness's tendancy to sniff at presents and eat inedible wrapping items (necessitating expensive veterinary visits).

So-ours go out late.  But only becuase our dog is spoiled utterly rotten.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #22 on: December 03, 2007, 02:52:18 PM »
I dont dare leave stuff under the tree in case its something edible. The Jack Russels would surely find them.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #23 on: December 03, 2007, 02:57:54 PM »
My mother didn't put up the presents until Christmas Eve when everyone was sleeping because of Santa.

Now, she still waits until Christmas Eve, and still signs all her presents from Santa.

Haha. It makes her happy, so we all just let it go



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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #24 on: December 03, 2007, 03:21:22 PM »
We'd have a large unwrapped Santa gift and our stockings which would show up when we were asleep on Christmas eve.

All other presents went under the tree beforehand.  With the tags artfully hidden.  And we weren't allowed to touch them, once they were under the tree.  And If we tried to look, we got in BIG trouble.  So we could see the presents, we just didn't know which were for who...

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #25 on: December 03, 2007, 03:24:38 PM »
We have a big family, so we put presents given to us by relatives before Christmas under the tree.  All the presents to and from each other went under/near the tree on Christmas Eve.  Otherwise they would take up half the parlor for the duration!

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #26 on: December 03, 2007, 03:29:06 PM »
Presents go under the tree as soon as they're bought and wrapped.  Part of the fun of the season is watching them accumulate and then watching them change as boxes for relatives are mailed out and boxes from relatives arrive. 

When I was a child a highlight of Christmas Eve was a quaint ritual known as "Bringing out the bags".  We'd pack up decorated shopping bags with our gifts for relatives and bring them around to to appropriate houses.  Other relatives were doing the same thing.  Christmas Eve afternoon turned into a sort of reverse Trick of Treat.

As for it being boastful, nonsense.  there's no way for a visitor to know whether a wrapped box that looks like a watch contains a Rolex or a $5 joke gift from the kiosk.   

 

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #27 on: December 03, 2007, 03:32:10 PM »
Growing up, the presents were under the tree (Except the ones from santa...)

My husband and I have started a new tradition though. We have a small living Christmas tree outside, which we will decorate with lights (Hopefully we'll get to that tonight) and we will have a nativity display inside, on a table with a tablecloth. The presents will go under the nativity, hidden away.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #28 on: December 03, 2007, 03:58:01 PM »
Since DS has been old enough to pay attention, we've put the gifts under the tree on Christmas Eve. We've never done the Santa thing, so we don't have to wait until he's asleep, and he's always rather enjoyed carrying them from my no-longer-super-secret hiding space.

Another reason is the same problem many of you face: entitled pets. My cat has such an Everything Here Is Mine attitude, anything left under the tree will be opened, tasted, batted around, and summarily discarded behind the couch. Even overnight Christmas Eve is chancy.

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Re: Displaying Christmas presents under the tree beforehand
« Reply #29 on: December 03, 2007, 04:08:15 PM »
Our presents have always gone under the tree as soon as they are wrapped, except the ones from Santa.

I love seeing packages under the tree; it would seem like something was missing if they weren't there.