OK, so every year I buy big packs of christmas cards. I always write a personal message in them. But EVERY YEAR, my grandmother makes it clear that she wants a "special" card (e.g- one with grandmother on it, from me and DH AND one from our kids). If I do this for her, I have to do it for my parents, my ILs, my other grandparents, my DHs grandparents, then from the kids...see how it escalates? I don't like leaving anyone out. The it ends up costing me a fortune, which i really don't have. Is she rude? Should I get her a special one anyway to keep the peace? What to do, Ehellions?