I am glad we cut contact with this person, i mentioned in other thread. ANyone recall evil fil? Anyways, mil sent me email saying she is sending out her stupid CHristmas newletter, and shared it with me, (they have done this in the past, but it wasnt much of an issue, but this year it is bc in it she mentions how they 'must admit' it's been a disappointment that we are not spending holidays (she doesnt mention or *any* day) with them anymore, and how much they have done for us, so they 'can't help' but be disappointed.
of course, she failes to mention the reason we no longer see them...she doesnt say how fil hauled off and smacked, grabbed nephew, and then went on another occasion to terrify our daughter in one of his bully modes. She only mentions all this pleasant superifical stuff, and then amidst that mentions how they cant help but be disappointed in our lack of effort.
I requested she remove this (lie) and she said she cant, bc 'its' already written'....(as if in stone?) dh says dont worry about it...but it bothers me bc she is basically spreading a lie/ rumor about us that is totally one sided and leaves out the whole context of it.
never have told someone what to write/ not write, but to me this is really different...