I made you a decoration for the winter holiday that you celebrate
The glitter will fall off and get all over my floor. Thanks for making my house more of a mess at the holidays.
On the other hand, I thought very, very hard about you and bought you tickets to the fabulous show you have been wanting to see, dinner at the restaurant you love (with one other person), and of course a limo ride to and from all events.
Of course, I checked your calendar to make sure you didn't have plans that night-do you think I would be that thoughtless? And of course I hired a sitter for your dependents.
Have a great time!