I was starting to think i had imagined posting this. I read the replies at work, didn't have time to answer, and then i couldn't find it because i kept looking in "All in a Day's Work" and wondering what the heck happened.
In any case, i still don't know what the deal is. The "RSVP by" date was today, and i am not going. I just have way too much other stuff to deal with, plus i work until 7 and it starts at 5:30.
Thanks for the responses!