Author Topic: Gift exchange name  (Read 2816 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

renfield1969

  • Jr. Member
  • *
  • Posts: 85
Gift exchange name
« on: December 14, 2007, 01:44:40 PM »
At my new job, our group does a gift exchange at our holiday luncheon. It's the kind where the first person unwraps a gift, and then the next person can either unwrap a gift or take a gift from someone who has already unwrapped a gift. If a gift is taken from someone, they then unwrap a new gift. This type of exhange is fairly common, but we found that we don't know a name to call it, at least not one that doesn't make us uncomfortable. The only names we have are "Dirty Santa" and some others that just go downhill from there. Frankly, I'm fine with "We're Doing A Gift Exchange And Here Are The Rules", but is there a socially acceptable name for this activity?


ncp

  • Member
  • **
  • Posts: 253
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #1 on: December 14, 2007, 01:51:51 PM »
I've heard it called a "White Elephant Exchange" or a "Yankee Exchange".

ShadesOfGrey

  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 12682
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #2 on: December 14, 2007, 01:53:30 PM »
my family calls it a yankee swap. 
Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with shades of deeper meaning. - Maya Angelou

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. - Maya Angelou

jais

  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 8560
  • Two Friends. Two Hearts. One Promise. One Love.
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #3 on: December 14, 2007, 02:23:52 PM »
I've never heard of this but it sounds like fun.

Visiting Crazy Town

  • Hero Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 2779
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #4 on: December 14, 2007, 02:26:13 PM »
we call it a white elephant or gift swap

unicornbee

  • Member
  • **
  • Posts: 745
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #5 on: December 14, 2007, 04:20:13 PM »
We just had that yesterday at work. Its called White Elephant here

Wonderflonium

  • DO NOT BOUNCE
  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 9091
  • I have a PhD in horribleness.
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #6 on: December 14, 2007, 06:55:56 PM »
Another vote for "Yankee Swap"
The status is not quo!

Aeris

  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 9553
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #7 on: December 14, 2007, 07:05:22 PM »
I've always called those White Elephant exchanges.

KenveeB

  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 7433
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #8 on: December 14, 2007, 08:44:32 PM »
In my family, it's called a Chinese exchange.  For work, though, I would refer to it as a White Elephant.  Everyone will know what you mean.

CG

  • Hero Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 2041
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #9 on: December 16, 2007, 09:25:30 AM »
Apparently, at least to my mother, there's a difference between a White Elephant and a Chinese exchange. White Elephant tends to have more of the tacky/weird presents. She told me we're doing a gift exchange at my grandparents' this year and was mildly horrified at the thought of what I'd bring when I said "Oh, white elephant." EvilCG is very tempted to bring something utterly tacky...but that side of the family would probably like the glow-in-the-dark beer coozies. >:D

KenveeB

  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 7433
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #10 on: December 16, 2007, 09:29:27 AM »
Apparently, at least to my mother, there's a difference between a White Elephant and a Chinese exchange. White Elephant tends to have more of the tacky/weird presents. She told me we're doing a gift exchange at my grandparents' this year and was mildly horrified at the thought of what I'd bring when I said "Oh, white elephant." EvilCG is very tempted to bring something utterly tacky...but that side of the family would probably like the glow-in-the-dark beer coozies. >:D

I agree with your mom.  White Elephant is a Chinese/yankee swap with the "bring something funny you want to get out of your house" theme.  A "pure" Chinese/yankee swap is for regular gifts.  (The white elephant name, of course, meaning a useless gift you can't get rid of -- like being "honored" with a gift of the sacred white elephant...which was so sacred you couldn't use it to do actual work but still had to spend a fortune feeding it.  I love origin of phrases. :))

green ferns

  • Member
  • **
  • Posts: 430
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #11 on: December 17, 2007, 02:18:10 PM »
Another vote for Yankee Swap.... that's the way it was described to me the first time I heard the term.

Kenvee: thanks for the info! I love origins of words & phrases too--
Everything that is done in the world is done by hope. Martin Luther

seren

  • Member
  • **
  • Posts: 632
  • Look out world, here I come!
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #12 on: December 17, 2007, 09:15:02 PM »
I've heard it called a "Round Robin Exchange"...it's fun...sometimes the same item moves throughout the room.

Seren



Scritzy

  • Please do not adjust your set.
  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 15895
  • Passing through the iris of the world ...
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #13 on: December 17, 2007, 09:18:06 PM »
White elephant exchanges can turn out well, though. I ended up with a $200 leopard-print nightgown and matching robe because Chip claimed it from someone else. And we got rid of the horrible cheap planter, complete with dirt, that we got as a wedding present. Yeehaah!

The nightgown, by the way, was from a woman who was regifting it because it wasn't her style.
Dragons

SC
It will pass. Or not.

jimithing

  • Super Hero!
  • ****
  • Posts: 19737
  • Life Is Too Short to Wear a Bad Outfit!
Re: Gift exchange name
« Reply #14 on: December 17, 2007, 09:21:07 PM »
I have never heard the term "Yankee Swap."  I've heard it called White Elephant or Dirty Santa.