Hello all! Both BF and I are recent college graduates. We're thinking of sending out some holiday cards to our friends, many of whom are also fairly young. Several of them are still in school.
I feel silly sending a Christmas card to a friend that I talk to on the phone every week. We're close and because it's a college friendship, we still relate to each other on a very informal basis. Furthermore, I would feel awkward sending her a card without sending one to her BF (he does not live with her), but he is a) not as good a friend as she is, and b) still in college. When I was in college no one would send each other cards; it would just be weird.
However, two other close friends were married this year, right out of college, and as I was a bridesmaid in their wedding and as they have established their own household, I feel like I should send them a card. Of course, once word gets round that I sent my married friends a card but not my unmarried ones ... *sigh* Maybe I should just stick to sending one to "adults", i.e. BF's parents. What do the E-hellions say?
