UPDATE ON THE MOVIE SITUATION:
At the suggestion of a former military person I contacted a recruiter, but they had no clue and said to contact the support organization. On AnySoldier there is a list of no-nos, including:
Any matter depicting nude or semi nude persons, pornographic or sexual items,
or non authorized political materials.
This means I did the right thing here. Of course, one has to wonder whether DVDs of Baywatch would be disqualified because of the bare-chested men.
I did send a copy of Body Heat to another group, but since I get e-mails from the addressee, I will write to her and ask for some guidance on this.