In the article, it mentions that they called the number on the card and asked to speak to Joan, only to be infomed that there wasn't a Joan there. It then went on to say that the adoption atourney knew that calls coming in requesting to speak with Joan were high priority calls.
That means that their adoptuion lawyer is behind them doing this!!
I cannot imagine how hurt I would have been if someone handed a card like this to me while I was pregnant.
I was only 22 when Oldest was born. I looked younger. Many people assumed it was an unwanted pregnancy, and that killed me. I already had enough self doubt about whether or not I would be a good mom, to have someone hand me that card yould have, to me, been like saying "We don't think you will be a good mom, Give us your baby!"