By the way, when my lunch gets stolen at work I do not do anything dangerous or illegal.
I just have my son-in-law make me his 8 alarm curry dish. He likes it hot, very very hot and the mild version is very tasty also so I eat the mild and leave the hot and the red face, sweating and all the water drinking identify the thief.
I think the contentious threads teach us that there are all kind of different ways to look at the world.
My first shopping cart thread about 3 years ago was a revalation. (never again I swear)
I have another:
Relatives should they or should they not be in the birthing room.