I did end up speaking to my VP about it. He was as shocked as I was. Anyway it's one of those situations if it happenes again I am to bring it to the Nurse's attention AND the VP's as soon as it happens.
Thanks for the responses!!
A tactic I might be tempted to try, given enough irritation at her, would be to call her on it, then and there. And do it in a big syrupy voice, not a lost temper voice. "Did you ask me if I WET myself? You didn't SAY THAT
, did you? What would possess you to SAY such a thing to an adult? Do I LOOK
like one of the little kids running around here? (No mention of the fact that it's an awfully disrespectful way to speak to ANYBODY..) I canNOT
believe you SAID that! UNbelievable! And so on and so on ad nauseum. I pretty much guarantee she'll get embarrassed by it all. Which would be no bad thing, in my personal opinion. People with the lack-of-couth to say such a thing SHOULD get embarrassed.