My DH and I got married in February, but due to financial problems, he is working in another part of the country for the summer. Sure people find it odd, but it's not the first time in our 8-year- relationship that we've lived apart, sometimes in totally different countries. Right now, it is the only way for us to get through this difficult time. And of course we've both had the 'You are a real trusting person, then'. The thought of an affair has never crossed my mind, and I know my DH inside and out and I have never worried once about him cheating on me. He wouldn't have just married me if he thought that living apart would be a struggle in that area. I'm planning on visiting him next month for a few days. It is hard, but it's better than the situation we were in before. Prior to him taking this summer job we were arguing a lot because of our lack of money, it was no way to start off a new marriage.