First of all, the line "What an interesting assumption" could be used towards almost everyone that posted here. No, I'm not trying to stir the pot.
I just find that most of the information we receive about the afore mentioned couple is by the tabloids. I say, if they have the money, (which they do) go for it. How many times have we read articles in regular magazines about people with more than 10 kids (whether adopted or natural) and we all say, oh, they are wonderful. Just because these two are celebrities, who are we to judge? Each of my grandparents had 10 brothers and sisters. They may not have had money, but they were loved.
The pictures that do seem to be published, the kids seem well rounded. Just because Shiloh isn't shown in public a lot (tabloids said kidnapping threats) doesn't mean she isn't loved.
Ok, will get off my soap box now. I guess I just have a hard time judging them as I am not privy to inside information!