She despises the library, but wants me to go to the kitchen/lounge to watch the broken televison. At a time when half of campus is packed into the library (and the other half of us are studying with tv and videogames) she refuses to go there.
And we only share the room, there is a floorwide bathroom.
She thinks that the room is mostly hers because I don't sleep in the room, I sleep at my boyfriend's house off campus (and believe me, if I could move completely, I would, but the University doesn't allow students to move off campus in the middle of the year). But I don't really think it matters that I don't sleep there, as long as I do spend time in the room and am paying for it, it is half mine. She ignored that.
I'm really hoping that the RD doesn't take her side just because her method of studying is more accepted. I do study, but I like having the tv noise in the background at the same time. And I do things other than study, like spend time with my friends and watch movies and go shopping, but I can count on two hands the amount of times she's gone out with her one friend. I don't know if she's lonely, or what.
In the middle of the semester she wrote me a letter saying that it was hurtful that I didn't spend more time in the room and that she thought the two of us were going to be best friends, but that wasn't and isn't what I'm looking for at all. I didn't get to choose who I wanted to live with and the University matches people randomly without paying any attention to personality.