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Re: Dealing with potty language, and another question
« Reply #15 on: December 13, 2006, 02:42:40 PM »
There is a school of thought in psychology that says kids focus very intently on different things as they grow older.  During the toddler years, kids are working really hard to learn how their own body works - they graduate from being fascinated by their own fist, to learning what it feels like when they have to pee, when they are tired, how to make a boo-boo stop hurting, etc.  Chances are, the OP's 3-year-old son is still having to put a lot more thought into figuring out what his body is telling him - hence "poo-poo" and "pee-pee" are on his mind a lot.

Another phase (and partially overlapping, age-wise, from 2 to 6 or so) is learning how to interact with other people, and seeing what the child can do that will cause other people to react.  Babies figure out quickly that crying will bring a parent, but learning how to interact with siblings, adults, and other children can be a lot slower.  "Stinky" (and getting attention when coming across "rhyming game" words that draw a reaction) is one way to do this.  OP's son has probably gotten a reaction out of OP or another adult with using the word "stinky" and finds it exciting to be able to do that, so he uses it more.

My parents always steered us toward less incorrect words - when my sister overheard dad say "dingdangity!" once and happily used "dam dam dam dam!" for a few days, mom suggested they learn the word "Fiddlesticks!" instead, because it was more fun to say.  My sister agreed, so she would yell "Fiddowstink!" when she was frustrated (at least, until her vocabulary got better).

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Re: Dealing with potty language, and another question
« Reply #16 on: December 13, 2006, 02:57:25 PM »
My mom's go-to words were "Shinola, shaving cream, and sheboygan".  Of course, those didn't start until yours truly swore at dropping my hat in the emergency room waiting for Gran to get stitches in her hand.  Mom said the look on the nurse's face made her make up something else to say right then and there.  And by the time she got done saying it, she was either over being mad OR in another room where I couldn't hear her. ;)

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Re: Dealing with potty language, and another question
« Reply #17 on: December 13, 2006, 03:45:38 PM »
When my baby was 2 his word for fork was the "f word" and his word for pizza was...well think kitty cat. You should have saw the look on my fathers face when he was told "I need a f*ck for my p*ssy" after serving son a slice of pizza. I barely got an explanation out before he started giving me heck. We never went to pizza places or any public place where son might need a fork until we had corrected the prob.

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Re: Dealing with potty language, and another question
« Reply #18 on: December 14, 2006, 08:31:49 AM »
When my baby was 2 his word for fork was the "f word" and his word for pizza was...well think kitty cat. You should have saw the look on my fathers face when he was told "I need a f*ck for my p*ssy" after serving son a slice of pizza. I barely got an explanation out before he started giving me heck. We never went to pizza places or any public place where son might need a fork until we had corrected the prob.

Okay, i'm gonna need you to explain the Starbuck's all over my screen to my bosses, b/c I think this is the best kid-word story I have ever heard. I LOVE it!

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Re: Dealing with potty language, and another question
« Reply #19 on: December 14, 2006, 08:34:18 AM »

My parents always steered us toward less incorrect words - when my sister overheard dad say "dingdangity!" once and happily used "dam dam dam dam!" for a few days, mom suggested they learn the word "Fiddlesticks!" instead, because it was more fun to say.  My sister agreed, so she would yell "Fiddowstink!" when she was frustrated (at least, until her vocabulary got better).

DS1 is 12 and his word rightnow is "freak" and "freaking" I hate hearing that word, b/c it seems a poor subsititute for the f* word that I know he really WANTS to say. i told him he is not allowed to say that and if he needs an f word to say, he can say "flowers." this of course made him laugh b/c flowers doesn't have nearly the same venom behind it, no matter HOW it's said.