We have; She and Joan sent an email stating we have to be more "specific" in our invitations.
Basically we have a headache. These are just classless, tasteless people who are out to use us and Sue is showing her true colors.
Nothing's more rude than someone sending a letter or email stating, well we have big parties because we feel the more the merrier so we assume you should to. They assume wrong. This is not their house.
Sue added that receiving an invitation with an RSVP and with it stating, her, her husband and her kids was not specific enough to let her know she couldn't invite whomever she wanted and that it didn't say specifically on the invitation only her and not her group of friends (yes she said that) were not invited and it was our fault for not being specific.
I sent a tert reply asking her to leave us alone; The party is canceled; we are not event planners nor do we own a club and that when a party is cancelled it is done with and that includes everyone. No further issues and if she perpetuates it, she shows she cared more about using us, and hijacking the party and is trying to make an issue of nothing.
She went on to say if Joan was with her husband would we had invited them then, and I said, "No, we wouldn't" .
This is not the time or place and maybe at a different event but not this one.
I didnt lose a friend. I lost a classless, tasteless, individual who represents a portion of society who lacks NO manners.