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Hey - How's it goin'?
« on: March 12, 2007, 04:39:53 PM »
About that time to find out how it's goin'.  So?  Is it still goin'?

Because, as a very dear and very cool elderly friend once told me - doesn't matter how it's goin' as long as it doesn't stop.

Going ok on this end.  Just got back from being away from work for three weeks (one week of training and two weeks of vacation).  The vacation time was great - I even got to see a rolling zoo first hand.

See, the stadium where fair City's professional baseball team has their Spring Training is across the road from the coroner's office. 

You know - the one that was holding Anna Nicole Smith's body.

I was and still am thoroughly disgusted by how just about everyone handled it (and by the fact that I got to see more of it than I thought was humanly possible to take, because it was a local story).

I mean, Arthur Schlesinger, Jr., died - and it was on Page 15.  No kidding - made me sick.  Merited only the briefest mention on the news. 

Other than that - the tan looks great!

So - how's with you?

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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2007, 04:49:26 PM »
I'm good! How are YOU?    :)

It's finally starting to warm up here.  YAY!  I don't care if I ever see winter again after that flippin' ice storm!

That rolling zoo sounds interesting. 
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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2007, 05:10:26 PM »
Hey, BehindBJ!  I had been wondering where you had gotten off to  ;)


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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2007, 08:58:28 PM »
Hey, my mom used to work at that county's courthouse. (Not the coroner's office!)  I used to work across the river.

Once we were eating lunch on a bench outside her workplace and Joe Namath walked by and smiled at me.

It was then, my life was complete.

Anyways, glad you're back!


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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #4 on: March 13, 2007, 05:16:57 AM »
Trees are buddibng, the sun is out, I had to send a cease and desist order to two doved intent on nesting on my balcony.  I am preparing to direct 5 one act plays for my drama kids and I GO HOME IN ABOUT 4 MONTHS YIPPPPPEEEEEE!!!!!!

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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #5 on: March 13, 2007, 09:34:24 AM »
Not going so good.

We're having a lot of problems with our new dog.  The irresponsible parent of the human variety is less than helpful. 

It's all my fault and I feel really stupid, and we paid a lot of money for her.  And the irresponsible parent of the human variety is less than helpful.  Did I mention that?

It's heart breaking.

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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #6 on: March 13, 2007, 02:12:15 PM »
Not going so good.

We're having a lot of problems with our new dog.  The irresponsible parent of the human variety is less than helpful. 

It's all my fault and I feel really stupid, and we paid a lot of money for her.  And the irresponsible parent of the human variety is less than helpful.  Did I mention that?

It's heart breaking.

**HUG** Poor little doggie!
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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #7 on: March 13, 2007, 02:23:03 PM »
Not going so good.

We're having a lot of problems with our new dog.  The irresponsible parent of the human variety is less than helpful. 

It's all my fault and I feel really stupid, and we paid a lot of money for her.  And the irresponsible parent of the human variety is less than helpful.  Did I mention that?

It's heart breaking.

 :( I'm sorry. May I ask if the problems are all behavior/training related? If so, I'd recommend calling your local animal shelter and asking for a recommendation for a good dog trainer. A good trainer can make all the difference in the world and would also be able to show you and your family how to work with her.

Hope it improves for you.

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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #8 on: March 13, 2007, 05:53:48 PM »
:( I'm sorry. May I ask if the problems are all behavior/training related? If so, I'd recommend calling your local animal shelter and asking for a recommendation for a good dog trainer. A good trainer can make all the difference in the world and would also be able to show you and your family how to work with her.

Hope it improves for you.

Yeah...we've checked into dog training.  Trouble is, there is, apparently, two types of Beagles.  Those that are bred for show, and those that are bred to be field dogs.  All the weeks of research I did on Beagles, you'd think THIS little detail would have come up in my many searches. 

So our little Beagle is, of course, a field dog.  We knew that when we got her.  The irresponsible parent of the human variety showed us her parents' awards in field trials.  She comes from a line of champions.  We told him we weren't interested in that sort of thing.  We just wanted a nice family pet for our dd to grow up with.  He never said ONE WORD to us about how difficult they are to train because of centuries of breeding to heighten their hunting instincts.

This little dog is sweet, loving, friendly and adorable.  She's the perfect dog EXCEPT for the fact that she can't go outside without going absolutely BONKERS at every little thing she smells.  She really goes nuts.  She has to track everything.  She gets her nose into the ground and drives herself crazy.  She won't go potty outside because she's too busy tracking *whatever* it is she's tracking (but the minute she's inside?  Oh yeah.)  And when she's doing this, she's yelping and barking, as if she's on a hunt.

She can't walk on a leash because every few inches there is something new to smell.  She won't stay on the sidewalk because it doesn't smell as interesting as whatever is in someone's flower bed or yard.

We don't have thousands of dollars to spend attempting to domesticate her.  And it probably wouldn't even work that well because her instincts are just that strong.

She just isn't a companion dog, plain and simple.  What really irks me is that the irresponsible parent of the human variety had to have known we'd have this problem and he didn't tell us.  I called him after two weeks and asked to return her and he said he couldn't take her back because he'd already filled her spot in the kennel.  Oh, and no refund, of course.

Everyone tells me that irresponsible parents of the human variety should not be like this.  That they care about their dogs and a reputable irresponsible parent of the human variety would take the dog back before he'd let you do anything else with it.  He told me to try to give her away or maybe sell her.  WHO WOULD TAKE HER??  He's been a irresponsible parent of the human variety for 50 years, but he's not like any irresponsible parent of the human variety I've ever heard about.  I feel like such an idiot.

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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #9 on: March 14, 2007, 03:00:42 PM »
Shoo--I'm sorry you found such a bad irresponsible parent of the human variety. Is there some authority that you could report him to? Some state have laws about returning pets based on missing/missed information, have you looked into that? Also, see if maybe you can find someone that has an easier to train puppy, and orchestrate a swap for your eager to track pup? Good luck, you have my best wishes.
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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #10 on: March 14, 2007, 03:03:21 PM »
It's going decisively better. I've decided to start college in the fall, and HUbby fully supports me. We are making amazing breakthroughs in MiddleSons speach, and are pretty sure that we heard our first personal pronoun this morning, which is beyond HUGE! BabySon is walking, and OldestSon is in n elevated math class...everyone's happy there.
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Re: Hey - How's it goin'?
« Reply #11 on: March 14, 2007, 05:15:35 PM »


Yeah...we've checked into dog training.  Trouble is, there is, apparently, two types of Beagles.  Those that are bred for show, and those that are bred to be field dogs.  All the weeks of research I did on Beagles, you'd think THIS little detail would have come up in my many searches. 

So our little Beagle is, of course, a field dog.  We knew that when we got her.  The irresponsible parent of the human variety showed us her parents' awards in field trials.  She comes from a line of champions.  We told him we weren't interested in that sort of thing.  We just wanted a nice family pet for our dd to grow up with.  He never said ONE WORD to us about how difficult they are to train because of centuries of breeding to heighten their hunting instincts.

This little dog is sweet, loving, friendly and adorable.  She's the perfect dog EXCEPT for the fact that she can't go outside without going absolutely BONKERS at every little thing she smells.  She really goes nuts.  She has to track everything.  She gets her nose into the ground and drives herself crazy.  She won't go potty outside because she's too busy tracking *whatever* it is she's tracking (but the minute she's inside?  Oh yeah.)  And when she's doing this, she's yelping and barking, as if she's on a hunt.

She can't walk on a leash because every few inches there is something new to smell.  She won't stay on the sidewalk because it doesn't smell as interesting as whatever is in someone's flower bed or yard.

We don't have thousands of dollars to spend attempting to domesticate her.  And it probably wouldn't even work that well because her instincts are just that strong.

She just isn't a companion dog, plain and simple.  What really irks me is that the irresponsible parent of the human variety had to have known we'd have this problem and he didn't tell us.  I called him after two weeks and asked to return her and he said he couldn't take her back because he'd already filled her spot in the kennel.  Oh, and no refund, of course.

Everyone tells me that irresponsible parents of the human variety should not be like this.  That they care about their dogs and a reputable irresponsible parent of the human variety would take the dog back before he'd let you do anything else with it.  He told me to try to give her away or maybe sell her.  WHO WOULD TAKE HER??  He's been a irresponsible parent of the human variety for 50 years, but he's not like any irresponsible parent of the human variety I've ever heard about.  I feel like such an idiot.

You are not an idiot. It is unfortunate that not all irresponsible parents of the human variety are above board, but the truth of the matter is that a lot of them are not nearly as qualified as they "should" be. I've worked in animal shelters and have seen some of the worst examples.

It is more difficult to train any dog who is not a puppy (optimal time is before six months), especially when they have had none of the essentials, because they have had time to get used to their bad behavior. It has more to do with lack of training at the appropriate time than her breed. It is not impossible to train any dog, despite their instincts, but it would require a lot of work and time on your part.

If you find that you cannot keep her, please look into a Beagle rescue group, as opposed to turning her over to a shelter or humane society. Breed-specific rescue groups are usually MUCH better than a shelter or humane society as they are typically no-kill facilities, and the dogs are often fostered rather than kept in shelter kennels. They will probably put her through some basic training as well. They might also have another adult beagle who is a better trained, and would try to match the appropriate dog with your family, household and day to day living. Rescue groups are much more likely to be honest with you about a dog because they don't want the dog to be returned.

*HUGS* I'm so sorry your first dog experience had to be like this.