Sabotage!

[graceh9]

agreed

imagine someone making an allegation with so little evidence against your husband or son?  it is easy to ruin someone's life with baseless charges of molestation -- and all institutions should be careful to not jump to conclusions or wreck people's careers without very good cause

men who work with kids need to be extraordinarily careful about not being in a position where baseless charges could be brought e.g. when my husband chaperoned a church choir trip one of the boys who doesn't get along well with other kids wanted to sleep in his room instead of the dorm -- I gasped when my husband told me this -- thank goodness he had the immediate good sense to say no to this -- when we were foster parents I made sure my teen son was never alone with our 12 year old foster daughter who knew all about the power of molestation charges because of her life experiences -- I was confident my son would have nothing to do with her -- but I didn't want any situation where he might be accused as a way to resist our discipline, or get back at us or whatever -- it is tough enough to work with a child that age who has been badly treated without putting your other kids at risk

Useless is certainly Useless but I would be surprised from what you have said that he molests kids

[LadyJaneinMD]

What a moroon.   So, do you have any power here?  If he has to work on this project next year, can you put him in charge of The Music That You Will Not Be Using?  Something minor and out of the way. Insulting work would be a plus.  Something that obviously shows that you have no confidance in his abilities at all.

[Bob Ducca]

What a moroon.   So, do you have any power here?  If he has to work on this project next year, can you put him in charge of The Music That You Will Not Be Using?  Something minor and out of the way. Insulting work would be a plus.  Something that obviously shows that you have no confidance in his abilities at all.

That is what I'm thinking.  I will do as much as I can on my own, and leave only the most unimportant things to him.