That the bride does crochet herself just makes it worse, IMO. She ought to know how much work it is and how much that work would be worth. Sheesh!
I think it was the FOF who asked not the bride. I could be wrong
What I understood is that FoF passed the picture to Bride just as a "hey, look, I know you crochet, you might be interested in this".
Bride understood "hey, Doll Fiend made one, I'll ask her to make me 5 more at an outrageous price and deadline".
Then Bride might have complained to FoF "your friend is ruining my wedding! she doesn't want to make me 5 thingies for tomorrow!".
Then FoF apologized to Doll Fiend and told her she never intended for Bride to request anything and she's sorry for her friend behaviour.
So yeah, like Queen of clubs said, that Bride actually does crochet makes it so much worse!