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Dont touch my..um chest!

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jfulle5:
Ok so this is basically the same as the "dont touch my hair" thread but a way way different body past. I had a full bilateral mystectomy at the age of 20 and since then I have had 2 reconstructive surgery. I dont typically tell people the back story of why I have breast implants but people eventually find out I have them. I have noticed the strangest thing though, people love to touch them. Girls who want implants ask to feel them, people who are curious want to feel them and then my friends want to feel them. So why do people think that just because they arent real that all of a sudden they are fair game? I'll tell people no but then THEY seem to be offended. Seriously what is wrong with people?

Cyndi:
People do that?!

I'm sorry about the mastectomy...but my God I'd be extremely offended if people messed with me that way!

jfulle5:
I think it's because of my age, I'm in college, and I don't explain the situation so people just assume I did it for vanity reasons.

Lisbeth:
Idiots out there think that there is no such thing as personal boundaries and that every person's body is their property.

I'd respond to requests to touch you in intimate places by saying, "No."  Lather, rinse, repeat.

If someone tries to do it without your permission, you can claim assault or remove their hands from your body in self-defense.

jfulle5:
It's typically when I wear a v-neck (which is rarely) and I've only girls so far ask me. But when my friends ask "come on just the top, I can see it anyway!" Then it gets akward. I know it's the strangest thing.

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